08/13/2026
🌲 The Family Cottage: Have You Had the Conversation Yet?
We've been enjoying a beautiful Canadian summer DeLauretis Wealth Management Inc./DFS Investments, and this season always reminds us of one important topic: The cottage conversation every family needs to have before emotions, assumptions, and taxes turn a favourite place into a family dispute.
For many Canadians, a cottage isn't just property. It's memories, traditions, and family history. But it's also an asset with significant financial, tax, and succession implications. If your family owns a cottage, consider discussing these issues now, not later:
🏡 Ownership Expectations:
- Who actually wants the cottage?
- Who assumes they'll inherit it?
- Who lives close enough to use it?
- Who can realistically maintain it?
Unspoken expectations are often the biggest source of conflict.
💸 Maintenance Costs:
Cottages come with ongoing expenses such as property taxes, insurance, repairs and renovations + utilities, docks, boats, septic systems, the list goes on. Families need clarity on who pays, both today and in the future.
📈 Capital Gains & Taxes When a cottage transfers to the next generation - taxes can be substantial!
Your advisor should help estimate:
- Potential capital gains
- Estate funding needs
- Whether keeping or selling the property makes the most sense
👵 Aging, Safety & Distance
Full-time cottage living sounds appealing, but access to healthcare, winter conditions, and distance from family can become important considerations.
❤️ Family Dynamics - Cottages can bring:
- Sibling conflict
- Different expectations
- Pressure to keep the property
- Guilt about selling
- Concerns about affordability
But the solution is simple: open and honest conversations.
🧭 Here are some succession planning options
- Leave the cottage to one child
- Create a shared-ownership agreement
- Sell and divide the proceeds
- Use insurance to equalize inheritances
- Set aside future maintenance funds
- Use a trust to help manage ownership and succession across generations
There is no "right" answer, only the one that fits your family's values and finances.
🌅 Bottom Line: The family cottage is where emotion, money, and legacy often intersect.
Talking about it now can help protect relationships, preserve memories, and prevent future conflict.
If you haven't had the cottage conversation yet, now is the time.