10/20/2026
I Learned Something Deep This Morning-
I put this question up on the white board for my early morning seminary kids to vote on.
This was humbling and enlightening all at the same time. The overwhelming majority thought I may have been voted most likely to be a teacher.
How do they perceive me? As a teacher each and every morning as they wipe the sleepy seeds out of their eyes so this was not shocking I suppose. I have also told them both of my parents were teachers so that was a reasonable connection.
I didn't got to church in high school but once again, these kids know me in a church setting, so that pulled a vote.
Funniest? If you ask me heck yeah, but it only got one sympathy vote. (may have guilt shamed a kid into this vote)
Most likely to go to jail, the two class comedians nailed that one.
Here is what hit me deep down: I didn't want to be voted what I was voted as in high school (hanging chads maybe?). See, that's funny right?
I asked myself in real time as we did this little exercise why that was the case?
I didn't want to be labeled one thing when I felt like I was something different, or something more than that label's box.
I had been perceived as one thing for a long time growing up, and I was sick of it. I wanted people to see me in a different light.
I told them I was not that happy about my most "likely" category.
A girl then asked, what you didn't want to be most likely to succeed?
She was shocked when I said, "That's right, I didn't want that label and that's what I got."
The kids were confused. Maybe because I am so funny or maybe because they see me as a teacher, but they had a hard time grasping why that was not what I wanted.
Honestly, I was tired of being labeled the smart kid. I wanted to be the most athletic. I wanted to be the most friendly. I wanted to be the funniest (I wasn't funny in high school so this is understandable). I wanted what my friends got. My friend that was voted most friendly was upset by it. Said it was a crock because he was not friendly at all (not true but his reaction was funny).
Labels come whether we like them or not and the context matters.
Here's the thing that was hammered home this morning at 6:15 AM. The label does not matter.
What matters is our perception of ourself, not the labels others put on us.
Take it from the funniest, most athletic, scuccessful, current church going early morning seminary teaching nice guy that probably won't go to jail from Camp Verde High there is.- 1 Vote-Jim. This is the vote that matters, and that's my deep thought for the day.