02/15/2026
Food for thought
James Van Der Beek passed away at 48 after a battle with stage 3 colorectal cancer. He leaves behind his wife, Kimberly, and their six kids.
And the part that should stop everyone cold is this: there’s now a GoFundMe for his family because the medical fight drained them. It’s already raised about $1.6M.
If an accomplished actor with decades of work can end up in this position, imagine what this diagnosis does to the average family with a normal paycheck and a normal insurance plan.
Here’s what cancer can cost in real life, even when you “have coverage.”
• A stage 3 colon cancer diagnosis in your 30s can average about $45,000 out of pocket in the first year alone, based on a GoodRx analysis cited by Business Insider
• Younger cancer patients (18–44) lose about $5,104 in annual wages on average and about 26 working days
• It’s not just chemo. It’s premiums, deductibles, out of network surprises, travel, time off work, and the hidden stuff nobody budgets for
That is how a health crisis becomes a financial crisis.
Not because people were reckless.
Because the system can financially body slam you while you’re trying to stay alive and keep your family stable.
If you want something practical to take from this, here are a few moves worth looking at before you ever need them:
• Know your out of pocket max and what “out of network” really means for your plan
• Keep a real emergency fund, not a “we have a credit card” fund
• Consider disability insurance if your income comes from you showing up
• If you have access to an HSA, actually use it like the medical emergency fund it was designed to be
• Make sure term life coverage matches the reality of your household, not the fantasy that everything will go perfectly
Prayers for Kimberly and the kids.
And a reminder for the rest of us that cancer does not just take health. It can take the entire financial floor out from under a family.
Let’s not wait till it’s too late.
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