26/12/2024
Listen up, young man!
Don't place any woman you're not married to on a special pedestal. There is nothing special about her. She's just another woman, know this.
Don't abandon your life, comfort, goals, and happiness just to please her. She's not worth that level of sacrifice from you. Don't be a fool.
Many men who have prioritized their own wellbeing, peace of mind, growth, and career advancement to please a woman are regretting it bitterly today.
A woman can not be pleased. Her needs and wants are insatiable. Even with all the trees in the garden, it's the one they were forbidden to eat from that entered Eve's eyes.
It is not your job to make any woman happy. You can not make anyone happy in this life. Everyone is responsible for his or her own happiness in life. If she can not be happy unless you completely lose yourself for her, then she deserves no place in your life. She will make you a caricature of your formal self.
A woman who wants you to be a shadow of yourself in order for her to be happy or be with you is totally wrong for you. Stop forcing a woman to like, love, accept or live with you. Don't you have dignity and self-respect? Stop doing too much in the name of love, dating and relationship.
Don't be an emotional giver or a fool in love, you will cry! Wake up, plan your life and focus more on yourself. As you keep living, building and growing, the right woman will be attracted to your life in time. Focus on you, the right woman will come.
Clear?