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23/10/2026

If the audience is busy reading your presentation, they are not fully listening to you.

A slide should help the audience understand the point.

It should not compete with you for their attention.

That is where many presentations go wrong.

The speaker is talking.

The slide is showing six bullet points, a paragraph, two charts, a logo, a stock photo and something called “Key Strategic Priorities”.

Now the audience is splitting its attention between two jobs:

Listening to you.

Reading the screen.

Your slide does not need to contain everything you know.

It needs to make the idea easier to understand.

One clear point.

One useful visual.

Enough context to support what you are saying.

The detail can live in the conversation, the notes or the follow-up document.

Open your current deck and find the one slide that needs the most ruthless editing. Start there.

If you cannot decide which one, that may also be useful information.

22/10/2026

Common ground works better when it is actually common.

There is nothing wrong with finding something you genuinely connect on.

A shared interest.

A similar experience.

A point of view you both happen to understand.

That can make a conversation easier because people are dealing with another human being rather than a sales process wearing a name badge.

The problem starts when “build rapport” turns into theatre.

You notice the golf photo.

Suddenly you have always loved golf.

There is a Labrador on the desk.

Apparently dogs have shaped your entire philosophy of life.

Buyers can usually feel the difference between genuine connection and friendliness being deployed as a technique.

You do not need to manufacture similarity.

Be interested.

Be warm.

And when there is real common ground, let it be real.

What tells you that rapport is genuine rather than engineered?

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21/10/2026

21/10/2026

By Everhard Smith Have you ever walked into a store, looked around for assistance, and immediately realised that getting someone to help you might be harder than finding the product you came to buy? I recently had that experience. I went into a large retail store, something South Africans would comp

21/10/2026

There is a difference between creating curiosity and making the buyer wait for the point.

Curiosity works when you give someone a reason to keep paying attention.

You open a gap.

You raise a question.

You show enough for the buyer to want the missing piece.

Then you close the loop properly.

The mistake is stretching suspense long after it has stopped being useful.

If the buyer is still waiting for the answer three slides later, you may not be building curiosity anymore.

You may just be testing their patience.

A good information gap earns attention because the answer is worth getting.

A bad one withholds clarity because the seller is afraid the point will not survive on its own.

Where do you think curiosity improves a sales conversation, and where does it become gimmicky?

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19/10/2026

A sales book earns its place on your desk when it helps with the next real conversation.

That is how I intended Brainbridge: The Science of Persuasion in Sales to be used.

Not as something you read once, agree with politely and then leave on a shelf.

Go back to it before an important call.

Use it while preparing for a difficult negotiation.

Return to it after a conversation that did not go the way you expected.

Revisit the principles when your approach needs sharpening.

The point is practical application: better questions, clearer value, stronger trust and persuasion that does not require turning the buyer into an opponent.

If selling is part of your work and you want a practical psychology framework you can return to, have a look at Brainbridge.

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18/10/2026

Crossed arms are not a confession.

Neither is looking away, leaning back or touching your face.

One movement does not tell you why it happened.

The person might be uncomfortable. Thinking. Cold. Distracted. Tired. Or simply sitting the way they normally sit.

Nonverbal behaviour can tell you that something may have changed.

It cannot hand you the explanation.

So observe the behaviour. Check the context. Notice whether the conversation has shifted.

Then do the difficult thing that secret body-language charts tend to avoid:

Ask.

Treat behaviour as a reason to pay attention, not a licence to diagnose the buyer.

Which body-language cue do you think salespeople overinterpret most often?

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15/10/2026

The most impressive testimonial is not automatically the most useful one.

You can have a wall full of praise and still leave the buyer wondering:

“Fine. But does this apply to people like us?”

Useful social proof gives them something recognisable.

A similar problem.
A similar type of business.
A similar scale.
A similar set of constraints.

It does not need to match every detail.

It needs to help the buyer make a sensible comparison between somebody else’s experience and their own situation.

Generic praise says, “People like it.”

Relevant proof says, “This might actually fit your world.”

Look at the proof you currently use. Does it resemble the customers you actually want to win?

13/10/2026

Your biggest competitor may be: “We’ll keep doing what we’re doing.”

The current way does not have to be perfect to keep winning.

It only has to be familiar.

The buyer already knows how to live with its flaws. Change asks for attention, effort and a little uncertainty, even when the new option is better.

That is why attacking the current approach is usually a poor move. You can end up making the buyer defend something they were already frustrated with.

A better conversation makes staying put easier to evaluate.

What keeps costing time?
What risk remains?
What irritation has simply become normal?

Then make the change feel manageable rather than dramatic.

How do you make the cost of doing nothing visible without manufacturing urgency?

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