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~Anonymous I didn’t trip. I didn’t make a mistake. I didn’t “get caught up in the moment.”I planned it.I knew exactly wh...
03/01/2026

~Anonymous

I didn’t trip. I didn’t make a mistake. I didn’t “get caught up in the moment.”

I planned it.

I knew exactly when my partner would be working late. I knew which excuse sounded believable because I’d used it before. I even cleared my phone, just in case — not because I was guilty yet, but because I intended to be.

The worst part is how normal it felt. The laughter. The flirting. The way I complained about my relationship as if that somehow justified what I was doing. I told myself everyone cheats. I told myself it didn’t mean anything.

But I came home different.

Not guilty enough to confess, just careful enough to lie better. I kissed them like nothing had happened. I let them tell me about their day. I nodded at the future we were supposedly building.

They still don’t know. And that’s what haunts me — not the cheating itself, but how easily I became someone who could betray trust and then sit comfortably inside it.

This is my confession:

I didn’t cheat because something was missing.

I cheated because I wanted to — and because I thought I’d get away with it.

~Anonymous I helped him keep his job.He worked with me at the depot in Germiston. Quiet guy. Always on time. When his gi...
02/01/2026

~Anonymous

I helped him keep his job.

He worked with me at the depot in Germiston. Quiet guy. Always on time. When his girlfriend came looking for him one afternoon, her eye was swollen and she was shaking, I told security she must leave. I said she was causing a scene.

Later, HR asked if I’d noticed anything at work. I said no. I said he was professional, respectful, reliable. I signed the statement without reading it twice.

The truth is, he’d told me. Not everything, but enough. He said she “pushes him.” He said it only happens when he drinks. I believed the parts that made it easier for me.

A week later, she applied for a protection order. He brought me the paperwork and asked if I could vouch for him. I did. I said he wasn’t violent. I said I’d never seen any signs.

When people ask why abuse continues, they talk about fear. They forget about convenience.

I chose mine.

And she paid for it.

~ Anonymous I never reported him.In our house in KwaMashu, everyone knew what his anger sounded like. The shouting. The ...
02/01/2026

~ Anonymous

I never reported him.

In our house in KwaMashu, everyone knew what his anger sounded like. The shouting. The thud of doors. The silence afterwards. When my sister came to me with a split lip and said she’d “fallen,” I knew she was lying — because I’d used that same lie before.

The night it got really bad, she slept in my room, shaking. I told her we’d go to the police in the morning. I even believed myself when I said it.

But morning came with excuses. What will people say? He’s the breadwinner. The pastor says we must pray. The family says we must not embarrass the name.

So when the social worker asked me, straight to my face, if I’d ever seen him hurt her, I said no. I said we argue like any family. I said it’s not that serious.

She went back to that house.

People think abuse survives because of fists and fear. The truth is, it survives because people like me stay quiet to keep the peace.

That’s my confession.

I didn’t raise my hand — but I helped keep his raised.

Sure fam, eish I'm a 29yo male. I have been living withmy girlfriend for a year now, my problem IS thatsheonly allows me...
29/06/2025

Sure fam, eish I'm a 29yo male. I have been living withmy girlfriend for a year now, my problem IS that
sheonly allows me to hit it once a week and thats lround. Every timel try tomake love she gives meacold
shoulder. Imaman I got needs and I don'twant to cheaton her because l love her. I need help/advices.

I regret leaving my husband. The story on Skeem Saam with Mapitsi made me break down. I saw myself in her in a lot of wa...
05/06/2025

I regret leaving my husband. The story on Skeem Saam with Mapitsi made me break down. I saw myself in her in a lot of ways. We haven't divorced yet, thankfully. I am all alone with the kids now. I miss being a family. I miss us eating together. I miss the kids running into our room every morning. I miss what we did together. I spent Valentine's alone and my husband did not even wish me happy birthday this year. I was alone with my kids and my sisters. I left my husband for a former colleague who pretended to be normal human being until I left my husband. He showed me flames and is a psychopath. I had enough in 2 months and I ended the relationship I had to quit my job because I couldn't work with him anymore. I wish I could just rewind my life and still be in my house right now. My husband is still hurt. I can see it when he comes to see the kids. I just want to work things out with him again but I wonder if he knows that I left him for another man. I just find it tough to start talking to him about this. I said some hurtful things before I left him. It is heavy on my heart. He is a good father and was a wonderful partner, looking back. Very much so compared to the psycho. Let's say my husband does
not know about my affair, could he take me back? He has not filed for divorce yet. Could there be some
hope? Given the chance, I just want to be an awesome wife to him. Nothing more or less.

04/06/2025

Fam, I'm done. Girlies size 34 and above please use wipes after tissue. Refresh yourself before tlof tlof. Im tired of spreading bums and being met with a funny smell. Guilty age 23-30...Corporate.

04/06/2025

To the lady who got infected with HIV by the boyfriend that never disclosed his status... Do not despair, it's not the end. Yes, you will have to take ARVs everyday, but so do people with chronic illnesses. Real men who love you will still stay with you. It's the real you they want, not your status. My story... I'm a guy who fell for this lady. She disclosed her HIV+ STATUS from the onset, and I was negative. I had to decide if I stay or leave, and I stayed. We dated and now have a beautiful daughter Unfortunately things didn't work out due to unrelated factors and we parted ways. I left the relationship still negative. It's really possible to live a normal life with HIV, and have a family. You just need to do some things and adjust your lifestyle to stay safe. So, you are still very much capable of loving and being loved Just make sure you disclose your status early. Good luck

04/06/2025

sure fam, i'm 19 male. i am currently doing my second year of matric rewrite that means it's my 3rd year in matric. i failed maths and physical sciences. at this point i only need 30% in either maths or sciences so i can get my matric certificate, that's all i need rn@ i am so hopeless. can y'all give me some advice on how to pass maths and physical sciences or at least tell me what to do

Been cheating on my husband with a guy from our gym club(also married) for over a year now, the s*xual attraction is so ...
04/06/2025

Been cheating on my husband with a guy from our gym club(also married) for over a year now, the s*xual attraction is so intense, we tried stopping but we always end up booking a hotel and being intimate. I need help, I don't want to lose my family but I also feel very emotionally connected to my side, any suggestions?

I wish I forgave my cheating girlfriend. Here's my long story. I'm 27(m) working, was dating this med student(24), she w...
02/06/2025

I wish I forgave my cheating girlfriend. Here's my long story. I'm 27(m) working, was dating this med student(24), she was everything I could hope for in a partner, I was already content with spending the rest of my life with her. Our relationship wasn't s*xual, she wanted to get married first before having s*x. She reasoned that she wanted her husband to be the one having the best of her(I didn't mind that since I was convinced that I would be that guy). We had our issues, mostly because I didn't see her often(maybe once every 2-4 months and spent 2-3 hours then went back) because she was always busy with something else. If not school, it was something else. She promised that it' I'll get better, but it never did. She usually broke every promise and repeated the same thing she said she was sorry for. After a year and few months of dating, I found out that she actually has a boyfriend and I'm the side dude. Found out via a friend who sent me the pictures when they were going on a date(she was looking at him like she was so inlove with him, never looked at me like that before). When we broke up, she said she wasn't inlove with the guy, but they were 'technically' dating. Not sure if they were having s*x or not. didn't really care at that point. After a year, she came back to me to ask for forgiveness and she went to therapy and for us to continue our relationship and she'll change and we could start having s*x and she'll love me loudly. I asked her why she wanted me back and she listed all the reasons but out of all the reasons not once did she mention that she wants me cause she loves/ inlove with me(which is the only reason I would consider getting back with her). But looking back now, I wish I could've given her a chance, maybe she was really going to change but so far she hasn't kept any of her promises, so I wasn't optimistic that anything would change. Now it's been close to 2 years of me being single and not even interested in dating again(the idea of dying alone doesn't sound that bad at this point), I'1l never trust any woman again ever. I know that's a little bit sad but I'm not feeling sorry for myself. I just realised that I was just being childish for expecting someone not to lie or cheat. Even if I get into a relationship or get married I'll never trust a woman again.

Recently dated a beautiful hun. She's every man's dream girl. Has a high flying career, nice car, property and just take...
01/06/2025

Recently dated a beautiful hun. She's every man's dream girl. Has a high flying career, nice car, property and just takes care of herself. Admittedly. o was low key envious of her success but she loved me deep and so did I. But she wasn't religious and church every Sunday is my thing and not for her. She goes once in a while. She reassured me all the time about how much she loved me and she showed it, but I'd always pick fights coz I think I just felt unsure of myself She's a lotta woman and I'm just picking myself and doing ok in my business and she was always doing a lot for
come holidays, sleep outs etc and I'm living my parents still. ] just felt like I can't provide for her and felt so inefficient in the relationship and she was just chilled and really confident of herself and her success. I think I also wanted her to shrink herself, which isn't ok to be fair. I eventually broke up with her, I miss her but I just feel I can't match her lifestyle but told her our religious beliefs don't align. Was I right in my approach

01/06/2025

MEN ARE SUCH WEIRD CREATURES

Hi guys please advise me men are such weird creatures hey .. I have been with this guy for 4 months now and he's a good guy and treats me good , however there's no spark in the bedroom and sometimes I feel like he is not interested. So I confronted him about this and this guy told me to stop shaving and be Natuaral...although confused a stoped shaving, and guy I'm hairy nhe, you can tell by the sideburns on my face .. Yhoo guys let me tell you . I've never been F"@&@$ like this before , wow ..this guy is giving me earth shaking or***ms ,even when he looks at me , he has that " woza Lana " look in his eyes. Problem is my hygiene. I'm not used to this and feel like I'm filthy when ungroomed I'm chubby and sweat easily . but the strokes are fire!!! Do guys like hairy ladies nha

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