Conscious Connections Club: Authentic Relating & Singles Events

Conscious Connections Club: Authentic Relating & Singles Events This is a home for authentic relating, connection games, and events in our innermost playground: love. Eloah

Whether you're here to restore your faith in humanity, meet others who are doing the work, or keep showing up as YOU in how you relate — welcome! Authentic Relating Games Nights in Southern Suburbs, Cape Town

02/06/2026

Easy.

12/02/2026

We are looking for men and women ages 28-65 who are self-aware, emotionally regulated and available. Is that you or someone you know?

FREE interactive global Valentine’s day event.

Link in bio ❤️

10/02/2026

Apps amplify Insecure Attachment. 👇

For anxious attachment, this amplifies overthinking, over-stretching, and self-abandonment.
For avoidant attachment, it amplifies distancing, ambiguity, and emotional minimalism.

And honestly? Many people end up looking disorganized — pulled in and pushed out at the same time.

Attention gets misinterpreted.
Lots of messages must mean I’m special.
Silence must mean they’re too good for me — or I did something wrong.

When in reality, it’s usually about priorities and communication skills, not your worth ❤️

23/01/2026

What breaks my heart about modern dating…

What breaks my heart most
is that everyone is playing a game
they don’t actually want to play.

Pretending they don’t care.
Pretending they’re unbothered.
Pretending they’re “chill.”

Not because they don’t want intimacy —
but because it doesn’t feel safe to want it openly.

So we compete over who needs less.
Who texts slower.
Who can stay cooler longer.

And then we wonder why it feels empty.

This isn’t a people problem.
It’s a system that rewards disconnection.

If someone in your life has been complaining about dating lately —
this is probably what they’re pointing at.

🤍

07/01/2026

Love in 2025 didn’t work out as planned? Share this with someone who needs to hear this.

05/01/2026

Waiting for a text that won’t come...💔 Ever found yourself there?

What do you do, write, say?

Waiting and worrying and strategizing and planning is the ego’s way. But it doesn’t have to be yours.

For as long as you live in the paradigm of doing, you will keep stuck. Sounds crazy?

The answer is to STOP 🛑 doing everything you have been conditioned to do. Sounds simple, huh? But it isn’t easy.

Because it’s not your mind that’s calling the shots, it’s your nervous system…

⬇️⬇️Drop LOVE in the comments and I will show you exactly how to stop spiraling and move exactly where your soul’s been guiding you all along.

28/12/2025

Keep at it.

06/12/2025

This video is going viral in Brazil for a reason. Watch the moment a *nervous laugh* comes up.

That’s not indifference — that’s a classic **fusing response**.
When the body tries to suppress emotion so it doesn’t have to feel the full weight of it.
Freeze → laugh → deflect. It’s a survival pattern, not a lack of care.

And this is exactly why we need emotional education.

If we want to be safe partners — for women, for men, for our communities —
we need to be able to sit with the discomfort these videos bring up.

Because anger *is* a human right.
Complex PTSD research calls it a necessity:
**You have the right to feel anger.
You have the right to express it in non-abusive ways.**

What we’re seeing in the video is not empowered masculinity — it’s shutdown masculinity.
The freeze that comes before the anger that never gets to become protection, boundary, or action.

If we want a different world, we need a different relationship with our emotions.

Not suppressing.
Not exploding.
But feeling → regulating → responding.

This is how we break cycles.
This is how we become safe. 💛

How do you feel watching this? 👇





SafeRelationships

04/12/2025

Matthew Hussey became a dad — and this honesty explains men better than any dating book 💛

[Authentic Relating Games in LOVE]Dating apps, social media, endless swiping, anxious-avoidant push and pull—it all gets...
03/12/2024

[Authentic Relating Games in LOVE]

Dating apps, social media, endless swiping, anxious-avoidant push and pull—it all gets tiring, doesn’t it?

Sometimes, it feels like the people we’re hoping to meet are out of reach, and that we’re wasting precious time. 💔


But it doesn’t have to be that way.


If you’re single, I invite you to join a welcome call today. We’ll talk about what’s been your biggest hurdle in meeting new people, answer any questions you have, and explore how we’re changing the way people connect.

👉 [Click the link in the comments to schedule your welcome call!]

I’m looking forward to hearing your story and learning what brought you to us,

xx
Eloah


P.S. Even if you're happily in a relationship, taking a break from dating, or on the list for upcoming events, stay tuned! I’ll be sharing a quiz soon to help ensure I’m supporting what truly matters to you at this moment. 🌈

P.P.S: You can always hit reply and tell me how you are feeling, share your mind and heart, or offer life-giving feedback. I read EVERY SINGLE message.

"A lot of other platforms have a strong sense of competition, but here I'm not playing against anyone, I'm playing with them. Conscious Connections will not appeal to the people who are not genuine and sincere." - Jacques

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Cape Town

Opening Hours

Wednesday 12:30 - 13:30
Thursday 14:00 - 15:00

Telephone

+27763101767

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