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06/23/2026

I recently came across a Retirement Fear Index.

The list included many of the things you would expect:

Inflation

Healthcare costs

Market volatility

Taxes

Long-term care expenses

Running out of money

As I read through the list, something caught my attention.

Almost every fear on it was something most of us have very little control over.

You can’t control inflation.

You can’t control the stock market.

You can’t control healthcare costs.

You can’t control what Congress does.

Yet these are the things many people spend years worrying about.

And don’t get me wrong. They matter.

But after spending the last several years talking with people who are approaching retirement - or who have already retired - I’ve noticed something interesting.

Many don’t struggle with the fears they spent years planning for.

Instead, they struggle with the things they never saw coming.

The loss of identity after leaving a role they’ve held for decades.

The lack of structure when nobody is waiting for them at 9:00 AM.

The loss of purpose that came from solving problems, leading teams, or contributing to something bigger than themselves.

The gradual realization that many of their social connections were tied to work.

In other words, they weren’t prepared for what work was really providing.

Because work is about much more than a paycheck.

It quietly provides:

Identity

Structure

Purpose

Connection

And unlike inflation or the stock market, these are things we can influence.

We can begin building interests outside of work.

We can invest in relationships before we need them.

We can experiment with new ways to contribute.

We can create routines and structures that support the life we want to live.

None of these things happen overnight.

But they also don’t happen by accident.

✏️ Try This
Ask yourself:

If I retired tomorrow, which of these would I miss most?

Identity

Structure

Purpose

Connection

Then ask a second question:

What am I doing today to strengthen that area outside of work?

The answer may tell you where your retirement preparation should begin.

✂️ The Final Edit
We can’t control inflation.

We can’t control the stock market.

We can’t control future healthcare costs.

But we do have influence over the parts of retirement that often determine whether the experience feels fulfilling.

The irony is that the risks we spend the most time worrying about are often the ones we can control the least.

And the risks we can influence are often the ones we ignore.

Perhaps the most important retirement question isn’t:

“Will I have enough money?”

It’s:

“Will I have enough purpose, structure, identity, and connection to build a life I want to wake up to?”

06/18/2026

Getting ready for our seminar tonight at the eagles nest at West Frankfort lake. Looking forward to seeing everyone this evening

06/16/2026

One of the biggest mistakes people make during transition is trying to rebuild the exact same life they had before… just without the job title.

They stay overscheduled.
Overcommitted.
Constantly productive.

They fill every empty space as quickly as possible because slowing down feels unfamiliar — and sometimes uncomfortable.

But eventually many people discover something important:

This transition is not just about changing how you spend your time.

It’s about changing your relationship with yourself.

For years, work may have been the thing that organized your life.

It told you:

where to go

what mattered

who needed you

how success was measured

where you found validation

how you introduced yourself to the world

And when that structure changes, it can feel disorienting at first.

Not because something has gone wrong.

But because transformation requires letting part of an old identity loosen its grip before a new one fully forms.

That space in between can feel messy.

You may question yourself.
You may feel less certain.
You may wonder whether you are “doing whatever you call it right.”

But this phase is not about becoming a completely different person.

It’s about allowing your life to evolve alongside the person you have become.

And honestly, I understand that differently now than I did a year ago.

This week marks one year since I started writing The Next Edit on Substack.

When I began, I thought I was writing about retirement.

What I slowly realized is that I was also writing my way through my own transformation.

Over the last year, I have changed too.

Not all at once.
Not dramatically.
But gradually, through reflection, experimentation, conversation, writing, and paying closer attention to what still fit — and what no longer did.

Some parts of my old identity became less central.
New parts emerged.

I became less interested in achievement for achievement’s sake.
More interested in meaning.
Connection.
Freedom.
Creating work and a life that feel aligned with who I am now — not just who I used to be.

That’s the thing about transition. It changes you while you are busy trying to figure it out.

Maybe success looks different now.

Maybe you want:

more freedom

deeper relationships

better health

meaningful contribution without constant pressure

more presence

less performance

That is not settling. That is awareness.

Transformation happens when you stop asking:

“How do I recreate my old life?”

And start asking:

“What kind of life actually fits me now?”

Retirement isn’t the end, it’s an edit and the beginning of authorship.

For the first time in a long time, you have the opportunity to decide what belongs in this next chapter — and what no longer does.

🛠️Try This
The “T” in the EDIT Method stands for Transform.

It is the sum of all of the work that has come before.

The Evaluation

The Design and

The Iteration.

Ask yourself a simple question: Who do you want to become in this next phase of your life?

Not what you want to accomplish.
Not what you want to achieve.

But WHO you want to become.

✂️The Final Edit
A year ago, I started writing about transition.

My goal was to help others who were feeling as lost and uncertain as I was — to better understand what was happening to them, and to know they were not alone.

What I didn’t fully appreciate then was how difficult it is to loosen your grip on something that has shaped your identity for 40 years.

Not just the work itself.
But the structure.
The momentum.
The sense of relevance.
The version of yourself you built around being productive, capable, and needed.

Along the way, I learned something important:

Transformation rarely happens all at once.

It happens gradually — through reflection, small experiments, difficult questions, unexpected conversations, and the willingness to let your life evolve instead of forcing yourself to stay the same.

And maybe that’s the real work of this phase of life.

Not recreating who we used to be.

But building a life that fits who we are becoming.

06/09/2026

High achievers are often very comfortable making big decisions.

Take the promotion.
Leave the company.
Sell the business.
Retire.

What tends to feel much harder is uncertainty.

We want clarity before we move.
A fully formed plan.
A guarantee that the next version of life will feel right immediately.

But most meaningful transitions don’t work that way.

They are discovered gradually.

Which is why the Iterate phase of the EDIT Method matters so much.

Because the goal is not to have all the answers before making a change.

The goal is to stay curious enough to test what might fit before blowing up your life entirely.

Because the truth is, we are often wrong about what we think will make us happy.

The thing you fantasized about may feel empty in practice.
The thing you dismissed may become deeply meaningful.

Testing out your ideas using small low stakes experiments helps give you information and keeps you moving forward.

That’s why iteration matters.

It removes the pressure to perfectly predict your future.

Instead of asking:

“What is my forever plan?”

You begin asking:

“What can I learn from trying this?”

That shift changes everything.

Especially for people who built careers around getting things “right.”

Life transitions are not linear projects.
They are lived experiences.

And the people who navigate them best are usually not the people with the clearest plan.

They are the people most willing to adapt as they learn more about themselves.

🛠️Try This
What is one thing you have been thinking about and want to try?

How can you create an experiment to test it to see if you like it and it fits into your vision of the future.

Ask yourself:

What am I curious about?

What energizes me?

What have I never had time to explore?

What could I test before making a permanent change?

Then pay attention:

What gives you energy?

What drains you?

What feels meaningful?

What feels performative?

You are gathering data now — not locking yourself into an identity.

For example:

You love your job, but want to make time for other things.

Could you try reducing your workload or hours for a period of time to see what it is like and start to do the thing you think you want to ?

Could you try consulting instead of quitting completely and see how that goes?

You think you want to spend your time “giving back”

Can you try talking on volunteer work

Can you become a mentor inside or outside your company ?

You think you might want to pivot and switch careers

Can you take a class that will help build your resume in the new area?

Can you build your network of people in the new area to learn more about it?

You think you want to reconnect with a passion project

Can you experiment with a new routine to make time for it?

Find low stakes ways to try your ideas and iterate on them by paying attention to what you learn when you do.

06/07/2026

Friendly reminder: Prices are going up on our estate planning services across the board, 20-30% starting June 15th. Please come by the office this week to get your plan started and lock in the lower pricing. Trusts were starting at $699; they will be $999 as of the 15th. The start-up fee was $100, and will be $500.

06/05/2026

The power of attorney that doesn’t quit (until you do)
Most clients breathe a sigh of relief when they sign their trust documents. They think the hard part’s over. It’s not.

Signing, notarizing, and witnessing a revocable trust is only half the battle. The real work, the step that determines whether any of that paperwork actually means anything, is called funding the trust.

Unfunded or partially funded trusts are one of the most common (and costly) failures in estate planning. According to industry studies, roughly one in three trusts never gets fully funded, leaving families back in probate court with the very problems the trust was meant to avoid.

It’s a simple but often overlooked truth: a trust only works when the assets actually make it inside. Or, as CJ puts it more bluntly in the video, “A trust without assets is just an expensive stack of paper.”

For financial advisors, that’s where you come in.

The myth that won’t die: “My power of attorney still works after death.”
It doesn’t. Full stop. Once the person who created the POA (the principal) passes away, the document dies with them.

And yet, people show up to banks every week saying, “But I have power of attorney!” while waving a document like it’s a golden ticket. The teller gently (or not so gently) explains that the authority ended the moment their loved one passed. From that point forward, control shifts to whoever’s named executor in the will. Or, if there’s no will, whoever the court appoints.

So “durable” doesn’t mean zombie power. It means resilient, able to keep functioning while you’re still alive but can’t make decisions for yourself.

What “durable” actually means (and why it matters)
Under normal rules, a standard (non-durable) power of attorney automatically expires if you become incapacitated. Which, if you think about it, defeats the whole purpose of having one.

That’s where durability comes in. A durable power of attorney (DPOA) includes special language that keeps it alive through incapacity. The American Bar Association defines it this way: it “remains effective even if the principal becomes incapacitated or unable to handle their affairs.”

There are two main types of POAs to understand here:

Financial Durable Power of Attorney: lets your chosen agent handle banking, investments, bills, property sales, and other money matters.‍
Medical (or Healthcare) Durable Power of Attorney: allows your agent to make healthcare decisions if you can’t speak for yourself.
The moment “durable” starts to matter
A durable POA is like a spare key you give to someone you trust, before you lock yourself out of your own house.

Say you’re in surgery, recovering from a stroke, or just temporarily unable to handle your finances. Your agent can step in to pay the mortgage, file taxes, or sign paperwork. Without a durable POA, your family might have to petition the court for guardianship just to do basic things like pay your bills.

That court process? Slow, expensive, and often humiliating. A durable POA is the legal shortcut that avoids it.

Springing vs. immediate: how your POA “activates”
Some durable POAs take effect as soon as they’re signed. Others are “springing,” meaning they only kick in if a doctor certifies you’re incapacitated.

Each has trade-offs:

Immediate DPOAs give your agent instant access, which can be practical but requires high trust.
Springing DPOAs feel safer but can create delays while doctors and institutions confirm incapacity.
Either way, durability makes sure that once the POA is active, it stays active. It holds through incapacity until you recover, or until you die.

What a durable POA can’t do
It can’t make or change your will.

It can’t give itself away or appoint someone else to act.

It can’t override your trust or executor after death.

It doesn’t replace your healthcare directives; it works alongside them.

Think of it as your legal backup battery. It keeps the system running when you can’t, but when the whole machine shuts down (you die), that battery stops working.

Common mistakes people make with powers of attorney
Not making it durable. Some generic templates don’t include the necessary durability clause. If it doesn’t explicitly say it remains effective during incapacity, it won’t.
Letting it get too old. Banks and title companies often reject POAs older than a few years.
Choosing the wrong agent. Durability means this person could one day control your finances and healthcare. Choose wisely, and consider naming a backup.
Not coordinating with trusts and wills. If your POA conflicts with your other estate documents, you’re inviting a courtroom mess.‍
Assuming “one and done.” Life changes, laws change, relationships change. Review your POA every few years.
Wrapping it up
A durable power of attorney is the document that doesn’t quit until you do. It’s built to hold steady through incapacity, when you most need backup, and to gracefully step aside when your executor takes over.

So, yes, make it durable. Make it clear. And make sure it’s drafted by someone who actually knows what that word means.

Because in estate planning, “durable” doesn’t mean forever. It means reliable when life stops cooperating.

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06/02/2026

Most people think about retirement in very binary terms.

You either:

keep working
or

stop working

This is the vision of retirement that society continues to show us over and over. Gardening, walks on the beach, spending time with your grandchildren, golf/pickeball etc…. all good things, if they are want you want.

But in truth, this vision of retirement is outdated.

Especially for people who have spent decades building careers, businesses, expertise, routines, and identities around work.

Because once you move past the fantasy version of retirement, many people discover something very uncomfortable.

They don’t necessarily want to stop working (some of us, even love working ).
They want something to feel different.

Less pressure.
More freedom.
More meaning.
More control over their time.
More space for themselves.

That’s why one of the most important parts of the EDIT Method is Design.

Design is the intentional act of building. Putting pieces together that make a whole that is unique to you.

Because the question is no longer:

“Should I retire?”

The better question is:

“What kind of life do I actually want now?”

For some people (fewer than you think), the answer really is full retirement.

But for many others, the next chapter looks more like:

consulting

seasonal work

mentoring

volunteering

board work

passion projects

portfolio life

part-time work

entrepreneurship

The challenge is that many high achievers never pause long enough to intentionally design their next phase.

They react instead.

To burnout. Stress. Corporate politics. Exhaustion.

But reacting and designing are not the same thing.

🛠️Try This
Most people spend more time planning a vacation than they do designing the next 20 years of their lives.

Don’t confuse escape with clarity. The goal of this phase of the Edit Method, is to intentionally Design what comes next.

Using this template, start by thinking about what a perfect day might look like for you.


My Perfect Day Template
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Ask yourself:

What are your biorhythms and patterns? Are you a morning person or a night owl? How will this impact your daily schedule?

What are your non-negotiables? Things you just will not do without? Think about things like 8 hours of sleep, daily walks or workouts?

What daily, weekly, monthly commitments do you need to account for?

How might weekends look different than week days?

What plans do you already have in place for the coming weeks/months/year

How much time do you have “free”?

How much of it do you want to fill?

What do you think you’d like to fill it with?

✂️The Final Edit
Design what comes next requires asking:

What do I want more of?

What do I want less of?

What pace fits me now?

What still matters?

What no longer does?

What kind of days do I actually want to live?

Because retirement is no longer simply about leaving work.

It’s about building a life that fits the person you are becoming now.

05/26/2026

People spend decades fantasizing about freedom from work.

No meetings.
No deadlines.
No email.
No Sunday night dread.

And for a while, retirement can feel exactly like you imagined. Relief. Freedom. Space to breathe again.

But eventually the trips end.
The house projects get finished.
The novelty wears off.

And then comes 10am on a random Tuesday.

No one needs anything from you.
No one is waiting for your opinion.
No calendar telling you where to go or who to be.

That’s the moment many people realize something surprising:

Work was doing a lot more than providing a paycheck.

There’s an old lyric that says:

“You don’t know what you’ve got till it’s gone.”

Most people think that applies to relationships.

It also applies to work.

Because work quietly fills spaces in our lives we rarely notice while we’re busy living them.

It gives us:

Structure

Identity

Purpose

Connection

And when those things disappear all at once, retirement can feel far more disorienting than people expect.

Not because retirement is bad.
But because transition is harder than most people prepare for.

The challenge is that many high achievers misdiagnose what they’re feeling long before retirement even happens.

They think:
“I want to retire.”

But often what they really mean is:

I’m exhausted.

I’m burned out.

I’m bored.

I’ve outgrown this version of my life.

I want more freedom.

I want more meaning.

I want to feel like myself again.

Retirement may be the answer.

But it is not the only answer.

For some people, the better path looks more like and “edit”:

consulting

part-time work

mentoring

portfolio life

a slower pace

starting something new

redesigning work instead of eliminating it entirely

That’s why I think the question is no longer:

“When can I retire?” or “Am I ready to retire?”

It’s:

“What is important to me now?” or “How do I want to spend my time now?

Because if you don’t understand what work has been providing emotionally and psychologically, it’s very easy to remove the job… and still feel stuck.

This is the reason I created the EDIT Method.

Not as a retirement plan. But as a way of thinking more intentionally about transition - to whatever is next.

The definition of EDIT that I like to use is the act of making modifications.

“Editing is about making intentional changes - keeping what still works or feels right, getting rid of what doesn’t or is holding you back and moving forward towards the next version of you”.

For the next few weeks, we will take a look at each step in the EDIT Method and how you can use it to figure our and move forward in your transition to whatever is next.

We start with “E”.

Evaluate
One of the biggest mistakes I see high achievers make is that they misinterpret being tired or exhausted for being “done” and ready to leave.

The tricky part, is that they can feel identical, but they have very different outcomes. Being tired can be fixed with rest. Being ready for something else can’t.

Understanding what you are feeling and why is critical to making solid choices going forward and the best way to avoid making a choice based on exhaustion, is to know the difference.

🛠️Try This
You can start by taking the readiness assessment below to help you pinpoint where you are and why you might “off”.

05/22/2026

Another day of learning and discussion on new social security, financial and estate planning to better serve our community

05/20/2026