04/28/2024
If I can offer a sound word of advice to those who feels like they have to live and suffer in silence for the sake of the backlash from people's judgment, DON'T DO IT!!!. No matter what condition you were personally birth into this earth whether favorable or not, it does not mean that you have to choose pain over peace. It doesn't matter how good you've been, some people are always going to have find a way to demonize you. People will always have something to say whether they know the truth of you or not. At some point you have to put your big girl or big boy's panties on and face adversity like a grown person. I am a non confrontational person by nature and it's taken a lot of therapy to determine why but through that I learned why I will no longer allow anyone especially certain personality types to treat me like a doormat. Take control of your life. I'm not saying it's going to be easy because winning a fight doesn't mean you're not going to walk away without bruises but in the end you'll be glad you faced that demon head on and you'll find a whole different level of confidence that even you didn't know you had. So stop suffering in silence. Only you know your truth, face your truth and the truth shall set you free. You can't put a price on your peace of mind.