10/15/2026
Caregiving conversations rarely happen at a convenient time. They tend to happen in a waiting room, or over a rushed phone call, or right after something changes. That is not the ideal setting for figuring out where important documents are, who has authority to make decisions, or what a loved one actually wants. The families who tend to feel most prepared are not the ones who had everything figured out. They are the ones who had the conversation before they needed to. Before the urgency. Before the stress. When there was still time to listen carefully and ask the questions that matter. That kind of preparation is not about predicting what will happen. It is about being ready to show up well when it does. If this is something you have been meaning to think through, I am happy to talk.