10/14/2026
One of the experiences that has shaped me most as an adult has been becoming a caregiver.
I've helped care for my adoptive parents through serious health challenges, and I continue to be involved in managing my dad's health and living situation today.
Caregiving changes the way you look at planning.
There are the emotional decisions everyone thinks about.
But there are also practical ones.
Who handles what?
Where are the documents?
What care is available?
How will it be paid for?
What does Mom or Dad actually want?
And how does the caregiver balance helping someone they love while still managing their own family, career and responsibilities?
I don't share this because I have every answer.
I don't.
I share it because I've learned how valuable these conversations can be before a family is forced to have them during a crisis.
If you're helping care for someone you love, I have a tremendous amount of respect for you.
It's one of the hardest—and most meaningful—roles a person can take on.