06/02/2026
A carnival came to town last weekend...
It was fascinating to watch my four girls approach the rides completely differently.
- My 7-year-old made a beeline for one of the biggest rides and loved it. No fear.
- My 10-year-old spent the entire first night on "small rides" (not "baby rides," as her sisters kept teasing) before deciding she was ready for the same ride her younger sister had conquered right out of the gate.
- My 13-year-old used to love rides, but had one bad experience in Japan that scared her so much she hadn't been on a major ride in five years. It took some encouragement from friends to finally get her back on one.
- My 15-year-old has been on so many roller coasters at this point that she was more interested in the food and social scene than the rides themselves. They were just background noise.
Of course, I couldn't help but see the parallels with investing. We all have natural tendencies, but our experiences, the amount of information we need to move forward, and the people around us influence our decisions too.
Someone who lived through a painful market decline may become far more cautious than their natural temperament would suggest. Others become more comfortable taking risks because previous risks worked out well.
One of the most valuable parts of financial planning isn't trying to change who you are. It's understanding your tendencies, recognizing how your experiences have shaped you, and building a plan that works with your behavior instead of against it.
As for me this weekend, I would consider myself in the "paralyzed by too much information" category - at least when it comes to carnivals, not investing. No way I'm getting on a ride that was assembled in a parking lot 24 hours ago and is being operated and inspected by people I've never met. That's just me!
What about you - are you a carnival ride person?