08/19/2026
I made a decision this week that I am both proud of and a little sad about.
I have been eyeing a new mountain bike for some time - not to replace my current bike but to compliment it. The bike I ride is actually great for where I live, but I find myself wanting something a little more aggressive when I travel.
Last week, Katie and I were in Vermont to celebrate our 10th anniversary and I had the chance to demo the exact bike I have been eyeing, an Ibis Ripmo AF.
It was absolutely everything I had expected it to be. Gobs of climbing traction, a slacker head tube with really excellent descending and a great fit for me. Just the bike I want for all-day rides in the mountains.
Katie even gave me permission to buy one. So, or course, I looked online and regionally (no local Ibis dealers), found the one I want in the color I want, and decided not to buy it.
Why?
I looked back at my key values: Family, Integrity, Exercise, Faith, & Autonomy.
I decided that NOT buying the bike would support my values of Autonomy & Family.
How is that?
I have a little bit of debt - a car payment - that I would rather pay down/off in order to increase my autonomy (I have fewer payments to make/less debt to service/less of a tether to the bank) which improves my family's situation by making us less income-dependent and, at least theoretically, less stressed about where our money "has" to go on a monthly basis.
My belief is that if this bike is meant to be mine, and I have been a good steward of God's blessings, the opportunity to buy it will come back around and I will be in a better situation to sn**ch it up. If not, that's OK too - life goes on.
a little sad? Yes. Proud of my decision? Yes.
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