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RichardCByrne.com Ideas about money-- how we deal with it (or don't), how we can be happy with a lot or a little. I'm a Financial Life Coach.

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09/26/2025

In Which I "Tell one on myself"

In my book I tell a story about almost being scammed out of a lot of money, which was only stopped by Wal-Mart's refusal to issue an international wire transfer without proper verification (which, of course, the scammer could not provide.) Well, it happened again!
Still in the "almost" category, thank to the help of an astute bank officer at Vantage Credit Union.
It started with a fake text message, purportedly from PayPal. Now, I get a lot of these in one from or another. When I do, I check my credit union account tied to my PayPal account, and if neither one shows a withdrawal, I ignore it. This particular scam started with transaction receipts showing a purchase of Bitcoin (which I do not trade in) with a phone number to call in case it is wrong. Well, I ignored the first such message, called about the second but got a busy signal, so did nothing else. On the third message in 2 days I called again and got someone.
With this chap on the line, I looked up the transaction number and the $$ equivalent of the Bitcoin, and he said he would start the process of a refund. He transferred me to another guy who sent me what looked like a legitimate PayPal claim for refund. The only problem was that I had not seen any withdrawal from either my credit union account or my PayPal account. He handled that by saying it was a "shadow transaction" that I couldn't see yet because it was too recent. Now, I'd never heard of such a thing; but I'd never been in the operations side of a bank taking deposits or other transfers, so I thought well, maybe that was so. And so I hit "submit" on the form, as he told me to do.
Side note: Unlike my previous scam experience (which had to do with supposed repair to my computer), they did not ask for remote access, nor did they ask for access to my account-- though they knew about it, as it was listed in PayPal.
They DID ask me how much was in my checking account, and I should have told them "none of your business," but I did tell them (what was I thinking with that?)
Next thing I knew I was getting a text saying that a deposit had been made to my account for roughly DOUBLE the amount I had told them was there, and much more that the refund would have been. Again, I didn't see it in my account, which he explained as another "shadow" transaction. I said "well, that must be a mistake" and he agreed, "Oh, yes it was. Things like that happen."
In order to correct this "error" he said I would have to wire them back half of it (which was, approximately the new balance in my account, myself having added an amount close to the refund by transfer from savings.) So, the other half of the new deposit would remain in the account, and then the refund would be added. He also threw in that if I did not send the money back I would have to pay taxes on it. Yeah, no fooling (I'm a tax preparer. I would deal with that if/when I got a 1099 statement reporting it.)
I was very suspicious but still hooked at this point. I was working remotely and could not wire any funds that way, so they said I would have to go to the bank. He provided the wire address (domestic, not foreign, to avoid an obvious red flag) and I went to the credit union. (Also unlike the previous scam, he did not insist on my keeping him on the phone while I did, just asked for a call back afterwards.)
So I went, and that saved my bacon. First of all, they only allow wiring of funds requests in person or over the phone, and that's a very good thing. Secondly, there's no such thing as a "Shadow transaction" so they knew this was phony from the start. Thirdly, the phone number on the text was not for PayPal. (I do cut myself a little slack on this one because PayPal has many possible contact numbers, and how to keep track of that when you don't call often? And there's not much personal service with companies like this anyway. When I called later to report the scam it was all automated--never did talk to a human.) They checked my account again there, and the balances were the same as I'd seen at home.

Bottom line: The whole thing was a scam, and I didn't need to do anything except not deal with these people again.

What I realized "after the fact." 1) had that wire gone through, it would have taken EVERYTHING from my checking account and they would not have replaced it. 2) That "mistaken" deposit was no mistake at all. In fact, in the previous scam, they had done a similar thing-- putting in too much money and wanting it wired back-- but since several years had passed I didn't remember that in time.

P.S. The guy called back just after I left, and I answered him. "I'm on my way back from the bank and you're not getting anything!" Hung up, and he didn't call again, thanks be.
P.P.S. When I checked my text messages,there was already another one about a phony Bitcoin transaction, sent while I had been on the phone with them! They can be relentless if you don't call them out.

Lessons (for everyone); Verify everything. If it doesn't show up as a transaction, it's probably phony. Do not give information out-- -not only the obvious things such as SSNs and bank account numbers, but even what might seem to be innocuous things if you don't know who you're talking to. As they say, even smart people can get scammed- in fact, that's what they count on!
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Next post: the tax provisions in the "Big beautiful bill" that apply to those of us who are not billionaires.

09/26/2025

I hope this page is still visible. I'm reactivating it after a long period of idleness, to share some things that relate to financial help for folks that might be useful.

09/27/2020

This month's ICF St. Louis coaching seminar was about Emotional Intelligence. It's been a popular topic in recent years, considered something necessary to succeed in management positions, such as the one I'm now in. But it's a skill that's good for anyone to have. Successful relationships need it.
One example: Having an idea of how your spouse, child, or friend will respond to something you're about to say. Not everyone responds the same way, or the same way in every situation. In short and very simply: Engage brain before shooting off mouth!
How does this work in financial life? Well, we all need to deal with debtors and creditors, for one thing. What approach is more likely to get you a favorable result, or at least leave the person you're talking to with a good impression? Something to think about.

08/07/2020

A little statement found on social media that makes a good point. There are many kinds of purchases where the cheapest is not always the best, and might even in the bigger picture of life be exploitative of others. (I have seldom shopped at Wal-Mart myself, even when funds were tight, for these reasons.) But there's no shame in it, if that's all you can do.

lesbianery's blog:
having a material lifestyle in accordance with your morals (eg buying fair trade coffee, going to farmers markets, composting) is admirable but it becomes concerning when people think those are the sole actions they need to take for their causes, when at the most, they are supplementary to presumably the real goal of social change. and they don’t make you morally superior to people who aren’t living life as “pure” as you are. capitalism is designed to keep those who are most oppressed by it, dependent on it. if you are able to break out of this cycle, it means you had the privilege to choose when others did not. direct your anger & moral outrage toward the capitalists that actually perpetuate that system, not toward someone who can only afford to go to wal-mart.

will continue to scream this

As I have written, "It's hard to drain the swamp when you'r up to your ass in alligators!"

07/29/2020

Just participated in a virtual seminar which include a guide visualization to visit my "future self." A good exercise. What kind of place are you in ? How does it look, sound, smell, feel? And what does your future self tell you. What would you want to ask them? What would they tell you about yourself today? I'd hope it would all be encouraging, as in fact it was for me. But it wouldn't have been, had I done it a few years ago. And yours might not be. But look for what encouragement your future self will give you. When you find that, what does it tell you about what you're doing and feeling now? What do you want to change? What do you want to keep doing or feeling more of?

07/23/2020

Covid-19. Something no one had heard of a year ago, but now we can't get away from. Even if you haven't gotten it or had someone close to you have it, we've all been affected. For those who have, and especially those who have lost loved ones, the disease itself has to be paramount; but what if you are not in that category?
I haven't lost a family member, but several people whom I had connections to one way or another have died or become seriously ill. Probably most of us fit that category
But what else ? Economic hardship, changes in work (even if not loss of work), just the whole re-forming of society that's going on. Sort of a poll, I guess. Or, if you were to set up a poll, what questions would you put on it?

07/20/2020

So, this page has been inactive for some time. During tax season (which was extended this year, as you probably know) I have been very busy. Not affected more than the general population by COVD-19. The tax offices where I work id not close, but stopped doing in-person appointments.Lots of cleaning and masks.
Anyhow, I'm back and planning to make a few posts a week. The pandemic has had such effects on the economy, and personal economies for many of us, that there is plenty to talk about. If you'd like to see a particular financial issue addressed, especially how you've dealt with the challenges or want to exchange ideas about it, go ahea and post or reply!

10/02/2019

This is more about the "energy" part of my book title (and I ask myself this, as well as asking readers): What is holding you back from reaching your vision or goals ? Some ideas from a pamphlet I received in one of my 12-step programs on money:
External interference-- just trying to maintain what I have now, so no attention to vision or goals. And, addictions, compulsive behaviors, codependent relationships.
(Q: What is the payoff to "staying busy" or of any of those other things? What's the cost of giving them up, and how much would that be worth?)

Internal interference-- memory of past failures, no vision or more than one, confusion about my vision. (Q: What's the payoff to staying confused, or of being stuck in the past? What's the cost of giving those things up, and how much would that be worth?)

Comments or questions welcome.

08/28/2019

So, the stock market took a big hit the last couple of weeks. Is it Trump's tariffs? Are we heading for a recession? I got a call from someone scared about losing a lot of value in his accounts.
Well, nobody has a crystal ball. Yeah, we may be heading that way. But here's where facts and figures have to cross paths with feelings and energy.
I said I didn't think it was worth losing sleep over. If you are, then get your money out. Getting stuck in a negative cycle of low energy is worse than losing a few dollars in potential value.
What makes the markets move? People's feelings, as the bottom line. If your intuition is to take less risk, take less risk. But if you're seeing more opportunity by staying in, or by spending on an opportunity, do that. No "right" or "wrong" in these things. Trust your inner voice, higher power, or whatever you think is beyond just your first thoughts that cause you to panic.

08/12/2019

Continuing on the topic of education: Did you know that you can get a credit against your income tax for educational expenses that aren't covered by scholarships? (Even if covered by loans, as those do have to be paid back.) And, for the first 4 years of college, or your child's college if they are your dependent, you can actually get up to $1000 extra (or "refundable") credit even if you don't owe that much in taxes. But there are limits, so check it out on the IRS website or with your tax preparer. (This situation came up with a taxpayer I've been helping in the last few weeks.)

We can talk about that and other education topics in a free conference call I'm offering on Tuesday, August 13 at 7pm Central Time. Just call in to (712)770-5505, and enter access code 132975.

07/25/2019

One thing I don't discuss much in my book is planning for college expenses. But I want to share some info. I got at a gathering of local parents, students and alumni at my son's college, Bowdoin, in Brunswick, ME. It's one of only 18 schools in the country that has a policy of "need-blind" admissions and "no loan" financing of the education.

The "need-blind" part means that, when a student interviews, the admissions office has no information on the family's financial status. There's no quota of so many financial aid students and so many full-paying students. So the entering class could be all one or all the other.

The no loan part is obvious. For example, my son received a grant for financial aid, and worked on campus, but he's graduating with no student loan debt!

This is all made possible, of course, by generous endowments and contributions. I wonder that more schools (especially highly endowed ones) do not do that.
Now, these are very selective schools, and in Bowdoin's case, quite small. But if you have a brilliant student but limited finances, these schools are real possibilities. And less pressure for graduating students, who don't go into their careers with a burden of student loan debt.

Bottom line: If you have a student looking at top-tier schools, but are worried about how to pay for them, look into some that have one or both of these policies.

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