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Hello fans,Human beings have an innate inner drive to be autonomous, self-determined and connected to one another. And w...
11/26/2021

Hello fans,
Human beings have an innate inner drive to be autonomous, self-determined and connected to one another. And when that drive is liberated, people achieve more and live richer lives.

11/26/2021

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11/22/2021

The Worst Feeling in the world
is Knowing that He Finally likes you,
but not Enough to leave the one he's
already with.

10/16/2021

Continuation From
Why you should not enter a relationship you literally can't afford.
Sirwillie Jp writes 👇
15th Oct 2021. Pt2.

Personally, as a concerned gentleman, this is a topic that has got me thinking this week. The issue of money and love is quite complicated. Lately, if a man brings up a topic involving love and money, he will immediately be labelled ‘Stingy’ but it is only a gold-digger woman who weeps over men’s money.😄

At least based on the reasoning of majority of girls who prefer flamboyant lifestyle these days, there is no success in love where there is no money.

Money is generally defined as a means of exchange, for determining the value of a good or service. This means money is a resource, a tool that can be used to solve problems but will not solve all our problems neither is it the only tool we need. This also means that it is not our source of happiness.

“Those who love money will never have enough. How absurd to think that wealth brings true happiness,” says the Bible in Ecclesiastes 5:10. I couldn’t have said this better.
Is money usually the most important factor when we make life decisions especially in relationships? Do we first consider the financial implication of anything we do before anything else?

While majority of these materialistic women have no worries about seeking financial help from their boyfriends from time to time, I personally find it a bit uncouth to ask for money from a man you are in a relationship with. Yes I know, love is an honourable thing and any man who truly loves his woman, should do anything to take care of her needs. But don’t you think men also deserve the same equal treatment?

It is expected to receive gifts and treats from time to time from your man, but asking for cash is a red line that I advise ladies not to cross. It puts off some of us serious men.
*A real lady should make her own money and take care of her bills.
*A real lady should know that needs always come before wants and should always be certain that the wants are not camouflaged as needs.

I know some women who are unemployed and have to rely on their boyfriends for everything, even the most basic of needs like sanitary pads.

A relationship works best when both the man and woman invest equally on their love, time, finances and much more.

Dear ladies, if you have just started dating, refrain from asking him for money, unless you are in a serious fix and he is the only one you can ask for financial assistance. Even then, make it clear that you intend to pay him back.
If he does lend you the money, make sure you pay it back unless he tells you to keep it. Never ask him to pay for your hair, nails or anything like that unless it is a treat for a special occasion.

You can’t meet a man for the first or second time and start asking him for money. He will catch on that you are only after his money and will cut you loose.

There are also other women who live on their own and get by just fine, but as soon as they get a boyfriend, they expect the guy to start footing their bills like rent and other expenses.

That is absolutely ridiculous.
If you have a job, try and make do with what you get, no matter how wealthy the guy you are dating is. He will respect you in the long run and commit himself to you.
I advise you to look for a man that is working to better himself financially, even better, work with him (as he works with you), help him get to where the both of you want him to be financially, and he will never forget it, you will get to enjoy a luxurious life with him without even having to ask for it.

My lovely ladies out there (at least the ones I know), I don’t believe that men solely exist in this planet earth to support women. A man is not your ATM or safety net. Try becoming independent. You will feel a lot happier and fulfilled in a relationship if you know that you have got your own back. Trust Me 😋

Ladies, if you do ask your man for money and he politely declines, you have no right to throw a tantrum or hold it against him.
No man owes you anything. It is his money, not your money. Instead of asking him for money for petty things, work for a long-term relationship with him such as marriage because only then will his money be regarded as yours as well.

In the meantime, be an independent woman as you can. Love him for who he is, and not for his wealth or money.
And also dear Men, Love needs to be simple and uncomplicated, so if you can make her love you without money, then you are getting the real thing.

Thanks for your time 😊
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10/16/2021

Dear Men,
Why you should not enter a relationship you literally can't afford.
Sirwillie Jp writes 👇
15th Oct 2021.

You need money as much as you need emotional maturity and intelligence in a relationship and until you can afford these, you probably shouldn't be dating.

*Transactional relationships
You must have heard people say there's no romance without finance, and that when you have no money, you have no honey. This is simply because deep down, most relationships are still transactional in nature.

That is to say, you stand a very high chance of getting someone to love you when you are financially OK. If you are not, all your abundance of emotions and good traits may not count for much.

Although some social change is seemingly being orchestrated via social media discourse, it seems that it'll take a very long while to completely [or even significantly] overhaul a belief system that has existed for a long, long time in almost every culture and nationality you can think about, although in varying degrees.

Apart from the fact that relationships are largely transactional in these parts, another truth that every guy would need to wrap their heads around is that "There is no Relationship that’s Free." E shock u abi 🤣

However,Relationships are not meant to solely be about what money can buy, they are not supposed to bleed you dry and also they are not meant to wreck your credit but you cannot do love in this 21st century without having to actually spend money, whether you are a man or a woman.

*Your love can't live without money.
Love, even in its purest, truest and most genuine form is kinda hinged on sharing and giving gifts and spending quality time on dates among other things. And there is no way you are going to do these without spending.

Whenever the operation of money in relationships and marriages is spoken of these days, a lot of attention is paid on women and how they need to chip in more regularly and spend money on men, too.

That conversation is largely triggered by the commonness of transactional relationships as mentioned above, and the need to reduce or completely phase out its occurrences.

However, taking away the transactional nature of relationships will still not excuse you, man, from spending on your woman. Neither will it excuse you, woman, from doing the same.

And you need to do so gladly, happily and freely without being asked to. Random gifts for her, especially if her love language is getting gifts; occasionally making a grand show of your love to her and basically just spoiling her as your financial strengths permit.

This is why you should consider not pursuing a relationship when you have no source of income. Really, "Love is quite difficult to Prove when you’re very Broke."

In this same vein, it should also be stated that dating within your financial bracket is a thing and every guy needs to acknowledge this. Date someone that won’t require you to over-flex your financial muscle.

You also need to date someone who strives for financial freedom and pursues financial success of her own.
To be Continue........ Pt2 loading...

09/24/2021

Break your Ribs 🤣

09/24/2021

My worry is why you’re still dating him/her. There are lots of red flags that has the potential of becoming big holes in the marriage tommorow.

Don’t you value yourself enough or you’ll rather stay and harmed yourself in a relationship with a man/woman who has no respect for your person?

God can't possibly come down and do everything for us that's why he provides us with legs to move out of any where that's not convenient for us.
Know this and have peace.
Sirwillie Jp

09/17/2021

Goodevening Guy's,I trust you all had a great day 😊
I believe someone needs this lil piece 👇

When we were kids, we all have expectations about the future. Some of us made plans on what we want to achieve before a certain age. As the saying goes "man proposes and God disposes". We all operate in different time frame.

Most ladies are already graduate at age of 25. After graduation the next thing that comes to a lady's mind is marriage. If you haven't found the right man to settle down with yet, instead of waiting and doing nothing further your education. If you already have a first degree, you can go for a second degree. On the other hand you can learn a skill or enrol into professional courses. Build yourself in all ramifications while waiting for the right man.

*Also,Know the Kind of Man to Marry.
At the age of 25 every lady ought to know the kind of man she want to get married to. It is important to set your priorities right, look beyond his physical. He can be handsome and rich, with the right body physique but if he doesn't respect you as a woman,he isn't the right man for you. Keep it in your mind that, you won't settle for anything less than God's plan for you.

*Be a Good manager.
A man build a house while a woman build a home. It takes a woman of good manager to keep a home. Before marriage build your yourself on how to manage resources.

Stop waiting for a rich man.
Some ladies are not yet married at the age of 25 because they are waiting for an already made man. They don't want to start from the crash with a man, even when they sees his potentials. Don't measure your love for a man base on his money. Always have it in mind, that those riches can be gone tomorrow. What then will you hold on to?

*Be Motherly Impulse.
Every woman is a potential mother. At the age of 25, you ought to know how to be a mother. Motherly impulse is something every woman should build on. There is no better time to build yourself than when you are still single.

*Stop Looking for a perfect match.
One attribute of being human is making mistakes and imperfections. Every day we thrive to perfection but we are not perfect. Stop looking for perfection instead compromise on things you can tolerate. Relationships are not made up of two perfect individuals, instead it is made of two people who decided to be together despite their imperfections.

* Don't trust social media.
Most ladies measure their standards and their achievements in life base on what they see on social media. My advice to the ladies is this :Most of these ladies you see on social media, are not better than you, they are just using a good phone. Don't kill yourself trying to meet up with social media expectations. All na packaging 😄

Listen,Social media will only show you the good sides of things. Don't be mad at yourself or wailing with complains due to what you see on social media. Concentrate on your personal growth and trust on God timing in your life.

Don't just search for love, search for stability.
Marriage is a good but is not a guarantee for a fulfilled life. Focus on yourself now that you are single.
Pray, stay focus, better yourself, make silent moves, keep your business private and surround yourself with good vibes. Your mind is the core of your life, always keep a positive mindset.

God bless u
Have a fulfilled weekend lovelies.
Sirwillie Jp Care's 🥰

08/31/2021

Ladies Hear This!!!
A woman shud not see herself as somebody who will be made by a Man.
A Woman shud believe in her own destiny and works towards it's.
A Woman shud be strong and not be easily flustered. Even if you get married 2day let the man knows you're bringing Values not a Burden because if you feel as a Woman is all about breasts and buttocks,when you give births the breasts will get Flabby 😁 but when you connect wit your Mind,Value and purposes believe me you will Neva aged in his Eyes even with saggy breasts😄.

buh it's a pity some ladies has their heads in the clouds That is why if anyone comes and promise to build 🏰 Castle for them in the Air they will fall for it why because they're not well bounded.

It is only a Fool that display breasts&buttocks as an Asset cuz wen u do so u end up meeting Fools like You😄.
Buh If you are a Woman of Values who knows her Purpose along the lines you'll meet people like You too.
So keep adding more Values to Yourself.


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08/10/2021

Ladies, What Do You Have To Offer In Your Relationships?
By Sirwillie Jp, Aug 10th 2021


As young women in Africa especially in our country Nigeria, were brought up with one major objective: finding the best possible guy for them so they can eventually settle down. They were raised with a variety of ideals about what men can offer in order to keep them happy.So they will create a mental checklists about what all a man needs to be and what all he needs to do in order to qualify for their attention, but how often do they ask themselves, “What am I bringing to the table in the relationship?”

In this day and age, women have this idea that they can be their best selves for a man by being the total package, which mainly includes brains, beauty, and accomplishments. They sometimes seem to think that because they look good, have a college degree and a high paying career, that should be enough to satisfy the man of their dreams. As a woman, you can be smart, good looking, talented, accomplished, and make good money, but how much do those things matter to the one you are with?

Some men like to play it off like they don’t need a relationship. They will put down modern women and pretend as if all they need in life is a call-girl for sexual gratification, a dog for companionship, and a maid to cook for them. Don’t let this fool you. Most grown men would really like to have a real love and connection with a woman who is special to him. He just doesn’t know of many women that posses the qualities he’s looking for.

The problem might be in the possibility that many women are clueless as to what things a man is seeking in a woman when thinking about the long term. They are so focused on what they are getting and don’t seem to take much time to think about what they are giving. These women might think they know what men want because of what they have been told makes them a total package, but they aren’t really paying attention when a man is communicating what he prefers.

While beauty, intelligence, and success are all things that men find attractive in a woman, she must stop and ask herself what else she has to offer that is unique and valuable to him. What is he getting out of the relationship and what is going to make him stick around? Of course it’s good for women to evaluate the man she is seeing and how happy she is in the relationship, but it’s also necessary to think about his happiness too. Her good looks and income will likely only take her so far.

Believe it or not, men actually appreciate many of the same things we do while in a partner. Think about everything that would like to have in your relationship, and think about whether or not you are offering that yourself. How are you showing your love and respect for him? Are you being supportive and comforting when necessary? Are you making an effort to dedicate your time, energy, and companionship to him? If you live together, are you being an equal or appropriate contributor financially and doing household work? Are his romantic and sexual needs being met as well as yours?

He wants to have a real partner, someone who is loyal and committed, someone to share experiences with and to have intellectual conversations with. He also wants a woman that challenges him, that inspires him to be the best man he can be, someone that gives him a reason to wake up and smile every day. Sometimes it seems as though women don’t realize how important this is for maintaining and healthy and lasting relationship with a man. Specifically, what your significant other wants from you might be a little different than what another man wants from his girlfriend, so the best thing you can do is open the lines of communication and take action.

Remember that the goal is figuring out what you can do that adds enhancement, value, and completion to your relationship. If equality is what you are after, keep in mind the bottom line: Don’t expect anything of your man that you aren’t willing to offer him yourself.

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