06/10/2026
June is Alzheimer’s & Brain Awareness Month
I started noticing that my mom was having difficulty with language and memory in 2018. Her P*P said it was normal aging. In 2021, there was a sharp increase in her memory problems, so she was tested. Diagnosed with Alzheimer’s.
Things we learned:
- It is possible to still have fun days. Mom’s sense of humor never left her, even 7 years after the first symptoms began..
- There are different versions of dementia. Some can cause the personality to change drastically, some don’t. We were lucky – Mom was still the same sweet person she always was.
- The memory loss can be sporadic: some days Mom was able to remember more, some days less.
- Enjoy the stories, even when you’re hearing them for the 20th time in a month. There will come a day when you are the one telling them what their life was like before.
- Confabulation, remembering events that never occurred, can happen. The first time she did that, I must have looked like a deer in headlights. It is not worth upsetting your loved one by getting confrontational about it. When Mom would say, “We see that person every time we’re out,” I would reply that if it wasn’t them, it was certainly someone similar.
- Figuring out the day-to-day is hard. If you don’t have a support network of friends or a local group nearby, http://alzconnected.org?utm_campaign=meetedgar&utm_medium=social&utm_source=meetedgar.com is a community board where you can go for advice.
- For those who aren’t able or ready to seek assisted living for their loved one, there are devices that can help in the interim: LifeAlert for fall and wandering risks, JubileeTV to communicate through a tv / special cable box with those who can’t use a phone anymore
For more info on caregiving, help paying for care, etc., check out the Alzheimer’s Association’s website:
https://www.alz.org/help-support/caregiving?utm_campaign=meetedgar&utm_medium=social&utm_source=meetedgar.com