05/18/2026
PSA: Nearly ALL abusive relationships include some level of financial abuse. Recognize red flags early.
Weather presenter Ruth Dodsworth’s ex-husband was jailed in 2021 for coercive control and stalking her. Even though he is now free, he was given a lifetime restraining order stopping him from contacting Ruth or their two children.
At times he would contact her up to 200 times a day while she was at work, but Ruth was unable to tell people the truth about her relationship. It took one extreme night for the police to become involved. Years on, Ruth is still learning to be fully free.
Financial abuse rarely starts with someone emptying your bank account. It usually starts with control.
🚩 “I’ll handle the finances.”
🚩 Restricting access to money or accounts
🚩 Monitoring every purchase
🚩 Ruining credit or forcing debt
🚩 Discouraging work or financial independence
Protect yourself by:
• Keeping some money in your own name
• Building your own credit
• Understanding all household finances
• Never signing documents you don’t understand
• Maintaining career skills, networks, and access to important records
Financial independence = safety, autonomy, and freedom of choice.
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