11/03/2026
SLOW DOWN!
The most important advice I have probably given recently is not particularly sophisticated.
Slow down.
I have said some version of that repeatedly to women who have recently lost their husbands.
You do not need to decide everything today.
You do not need to suddenly become an expert on investments.
You do not need to make a permanent decision because somebody mailed you a 37-page packet with a deadline-looking date on it.
You do not need to move every account.
You do not need to sell the house.
You do not need to know where you're going to live five years from now.
There are decisions that matter immediately.
And there are decisions that can wait.
Part of good planning is knowing the difference.
Sometimes financial advice is about knowing what to do.
Sometimes it is equally valuable to know what NOT to do yet.