08/11/2026
Derek here, the Insurance Dad!
Hey everyone, sorry it’s been a bit since I’ve shared an update. As I recover from having a brain tumor removed, looking at the computer screen still causes pretty bad headaches. But I wanted to take some time today to share what’s going on.
First, surgery recovery is going well. Each day I am getting physically stronger, more mobile, and more independent. Yes, there’s still a long road to go, but each moment of progress is super appreciated.
Today is a bit of a scary day, as I start my first round of treatment for the cancer that is not in my brain. The positive news is that treatments have had significant medical breakthroughs in the last year, and my internal cancer is treatable. That being said, it’s not clear what side effects I may or may not experience. However, having a plan in place by some of the top doctors in the world gives me strength and comfort.
My goal is to return to normal work and dad life as soon as humanly possible, and I still do not have an exact timetable for returning save this:
I will return.
My team has done an extraordinary job stepping up, and if you need my State Farm assistance, my team will be there for you. I cannot thank them enough. There are times when words just fail, and this is one of them.
I’ve never been a religious man, but I am a spiritual man. I didn’t fully understand the power of prayers and positive wishes until now. For everyone who has reached out in my support, it has mattered. Again, I don’t have the words to tell you how much it has meant. Just know it has meant everything to me.
My wife has been a rock star, a superhero, and the pillar of strength driving our family forward. I’m not sure how I got so lucky to have her, but she is the true legend. Love is without a doubt the most powerful force I have encountered in this world.
Many of you have asked what you can do for me. Here’s the deal: I’m an insurance agent. I have spent my career planning for the worst, and I have a darn good plan right now. I have great coverage. I have an exceptional care team of doctors. I have a fantastic support system of family, friends, and neighbors. Everyone has stepped up in ways I could not have imagined.
Today, I’m thinking about the ICU nurse who gave me a fist bump on my way to brain surgery and told me, “You got this, bada$$.”
I’m also thinking about the doctor who checked me into the ICU and gave me the news about how far my cancer has progressed. He checked in on me every night I was in the ICU, even when he wasn’t assigned, simply because he knew my wife had to be home with the kids.
If you want to do something for me, do something for someone else. Anyone else.
The world is full of kind and amazing people, and they need to be seen. They need to be told how important they are. Help those who are out there helping. There's no better way to honor me and honor this struggle I and my family are going through.
I’ll update as much as I can. Know that yes, I’m scared...
But more than fear, I feel hopeful, grateful, and loved.