10/08/2026
Derek here, the Insurance Dad!
A little Thursday Gratitude Post:
Today I am super grateful for my parents. When they visited me after my brain surgery, they came with this amazing jacket. It was super cool of them, and it helps keep me warm in these chilly fall mornings.
When times are tough, and they are tough for me right now, it is imperative to focus my mind on hope and gratitude.
Simple acts of human to human kindness remind me that there is beauty in the world, and that we have a hand in creating it.
While I am still on a long road to cancer remission and recovery, it is up to me to find joy.
A lot of people talk about cancer like it is a “fight” or a “battle.” For me, that is not really how I am perceiving it. I am not necessarily “fighting” the disease.
But the real fight, I believe, is in my mind. Can you find joy in the pain? Gratitude despite the lack of control over one’s health? Hope when you have gone on weeks of feeling stuck?
I write these posts not because I’ve mastered this. In fact, it is 100% the opposite. I am trying to learn how to be a father, a State Farm agent, and a person living with my cancer.
Truth be told, parts of me still have not even fully accepted the reality.
But posting about it, writing about it, and journaling about it is cathartic and helps me reorient my perspective toward hope and gratitude.
Loving life is easy when things are going your way, but loving life when life is kicking you while you’re down, now that’s a fight worth fighting.
Have a great Thursday, everyone!