05/19/2026
A friend of mine recently lost his 21 year old son to a kayaking accident. Another friend lost her son about 2 years ago, in a similar way. The first loss was devastating. The second loss felt even more visceral. I cannot imagine losing a child.
Last week, I sat with friends and tried to process this loss. My heart aches for his family, for the life that is gone, and for what will never be. While I can work to process my grief, I cannot comprehend what these parents have/are experiencing. There is nothing I can do or say that will ever heal the hole in their families, in their hearts.
Both sons were full of life, passionate about helping others and living life to its fullest. After much thought, I realized that the best way I can honor these young men and their families is to live MY life to the fullest as well. These men embodied everything I value: friendship, family, adventure, kindness, empathy, inspiration. They lived to inspire others and make other people's lives better.
As I considered that, I realized that because my business and personal social media accounts are separated (by requirement), that you may not know me as well as I would like - I get to know you well through the mortgage process, but because our time is focused on YOU, you don't get to know alot about ME. It's time for that to change.
Moving forward, I am going to share more personal moments, adventures and challenges here. I hope you will find it to be a point of connection, of shared experiences, challenges - and of inspiration.
As I shared with friends this week, we never know how many days we have left on this earth. We plan and believe that we are going to live to an old age, but we do not get to control the plan. We could live another 70+ years, or it could be over tomorrow. It is up to each of us to use our life to help and inspire others while we can.
I hope that by sharing some of my personal experiences and adventures, that I can help to inspire you...and you, me. Life is too short, and we need to make the most of it!
If you're willing to share, how have you processed a loss, and what lessons has it taught you?