10/07/2026
My Observations As A Relationship And Business Therapist. Reece.
Before now, humans were made to lean on one another and not to discover someone else’s weakness to use against them. That’s the main purpose of marriage, coming together of a man and a woman to give rise to a new generation, considering certain factors and the inborn traits that can thwart partners from being together. But knowledge and greed have poisoned mankind and greatly affected the beauty of relationships… we used to have relationships where both parties play their roles accordingly without minding what people would say or feel.
Back in the days of our predecessors, man provides endlessly and lead by serving his wife and family, the woman directs and quietly guides the family through the loops and patching the holes, emotionally, mentally, intellectually... creating that inner confidence in the man, by helping to cast the evil forces that were meant to destroy the bond.
In this modern days, a loving caring man, who prioritises his family or wife, is seen as a simp or weak…whereas, he’s just being a man who wants the best for his lady, by depriving himself of certain pleasures of life, just to fix her needs and help to fit in the society by reducing her stress load as well as the harshness created by societal laws that have kept humans trapped… in the end, you’ll run away from the good and caring partner, just to end up with someone who turns you into a punch bag, ties you down to a spot and run away from child support…
while a loyal wife, who’s not wayward, a weirdo, who’s seen all through the 99% reasons to be unfaithful, but still chose to be submissive and real, is taken for granted by fools and weak men, who can’t simply handle themselves. Animals are now better than humans, cos a lion still plays his roles, as well as the lionesses, without wanting to be equal to the male. Neither has there be any form of transformation in the animal kingdom, as no animal has ever woken up and decided that he’s tired of being a male and wanna be female or tired of being a female and wanna be a male.
Don’t be an ungrateful soul. That which you’re looking for outside, is not existing, you can never get it. Gold shines, but has no flavor, flowers with flavor have no gold feeling, ocean is deep but has no sweet water, river is sweet but doesn’t stay in a spot. No perfection, so don’t be a fool, calm your soul and take care of your good partner, sacrifice for them, your reward is before you.
If someone extends a helping hand when you’re down, don’t forget to say thank you, appreciation is the application for more, and when you get to the top, don’t forget those who got your back while you’re still busy in the dark, tryna figure out your path.
Don’t stop a friend or a brother/sister fighting for the throne… everyone won’t become a king or queen. And anyone who stops his brother/sister/friend from becoming the king or queen, won’t have a king or queen as a brother, sister or friend. Surely the throne will be occupied, either from your lineage or not. Tomorrow is mystery, someday, you might be fighting for a position or power, and need the support of the king, if you secured the throne for your good friend, brother or sister, it’ll be a smooth discussion with plenty to eat and drink on the table and action will be taken simultaneously, but if you deprived your own the throne and a stranger took over, when you need a help, forever will be the starting point of your journey, with lots of pleading and talks and you know a beggar is not a chooser.
To succeed, you have to sacrifice, cos nothing can be gained without losing… even heaven demands death. You’re scared of failure, yes you can’t fall if you don’t climb… but there’s no joy in living your whole life on the ground. Nothing is free, to climb, it’s gonna cost you everything you’re avoiding, trust me. If it comes easily, it won’t last and if it’ll last, it won’t come easily, you have to fight for what’s yours. The hardest thing to do and the right thing to do, are usually the same thing. Nothing that has meaning is easy, as an adult, easy shouldn’t be on your diary. You haven’t touched down the depth of the ocean, why use the word impossible? Dive in deeper. If you win, come home, let’s celebrate and honor you. We’re the world.
