07/14/2026
I get it. You've tried, you've stopped and started, and it feels like nothing's working. So you just *don't*.
The spreadsheet, the confusing app, using a calendar for bills' due dates, shifting money around between multiple accounts (read: robbing peter to pay paul)...
Maybe you've simply thought about doing one of the above but didn't try it yet.
The #1 thing people tell me about their past method is "the system I used didn’t help me reach my goals or change my habits".
So how does one successfully manage their cash flow???
The biggest gap I see in money management is the lack of tracking expenses **throughout the month**. So how does this help?
Knowing where your money goes allows you to regain control of the train when it goes off the rails (as it inevitably will, because: life).
How can you possibly course-correct when you do your usual routine: you get to the end of the month, exasperatedly exclaim "where did the money go?!" and you have no idea (which is all the more frustrating).
Then, like a broken record, you say "we make too much money to feel this broke".
Welp, maybe it's time to call in some help. Time to realize AI can't solve this, and you're ready to phone a friend and get accountable. Getting organized with a budgeting structure that actually works - yesssss (and you never thought you'd say that).
How was I able to get in your head like that? After 6 years of working with hundreds of households, I know how it goes. Heck, I know how it went with me!
So as promised, using a budgeting software that imports your transactions so you can keep your finger on the pulse of your finances is KEY. Do yourself a favor and download YNAB (link in my bio).
I don't work for them, but I am a YNAB certified coach and have used this tool exclusively for 5 years and running. It is THE thing to finally get your financial plan off the group. I'm biased but I also think you need accountability with this new plan!
So grab a trusted friend, family member, or coach (like me!) to start getting some traction and stick with the dang thing this time. You can do this!