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05/29/2026

My internet went down a few nights ago, and in the quiet I found myself asking an uncomfortable question: how would I feel two years from now if the thing that went dark was not the internet, but the AI I had quietly built my work around.

In this session I talk honestly about being a slow adopter who is embracing AI rather than denying it. Where it already lives in my day, from marketing to visuals to a thinking partner that argues the other side of my positions. Where I am headed next, including underwriting, Excel, and agents. And the one line I refuse to cross yet: letting a tool make the decision instead of speeding up the work in front of it.

You will walk away with a clearer sense of where AI belongs in a serious diligence process, where it does not, and a simple question to locate that line in your own workflow before a deal forces the answer for you.

For active and passive investors, family office principals, and the advisors who serve them.

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05/27/2026

There is a quiet assumption that keeps passive investors dependent.

It is the belief that underwriting is for the pros, and they are not one of them.

It almost never gets named.

But it is the most expensive belief in passive investing.

It is paid every time an investor reads an offering deck and cannot tell which assumptions are stretched.

It is paid every time the only person in the room who actually understands the math is the person selling the deal.

It is paid in capital that gets allocated based on trust rather than analysis.

This week's Underwriting Minute is about a student named Jake.

When Jake joined the community, he had zero experience in real estate syndications.

He had heard the word underwriting used confidently around him for years and had quietly concluded the skill belonged to someone else.

Ten weeks later, he had a working foundation.

Not a certificate.

A foundation.

He could open a deck and know what to look for, what was missing, and what questions to ask before the answer mattered.

What changed was not aptitude.

It was structure, repetition, and the willingness to put in the hours.

Underwriting is not a credential. It is a practice.

The people who do it well are not necessarily smarter than you. They have just spent more hours looking at deals and learning what breaks under

pressure.

Those hours are available to you too.

The full article is in the first comment.

If you have ever assumed underwriting was a skill that belonged to other people, I would be curious to hear what kept you from learning it.

Time? Access? Something else?

05/26/2026

A well-structured deal can weather a difficult market.

A poorly structured deal can fail in a strong one.

That is the part timing does not solve.

Investors ask me all the time whether this is the right moment to deploy capital.

They watch rates. They watch headlines. They wait for clarity that rarely arrives on time, because in real estate, pricing has already moved by the time the data is clear.

Market timing is not a control variable. It is a condition.

What you can actually control is narrower, and far more important.

- The assumptions inside the underwriting, and whether they hold up when you stress test them.

- The operator, and how they behave when reality drifts from the model.

- The structure of the deal, and where the pressure lands first.

- The margin of error, and what room remains when something does not go as planned.

Those are the inputs that drive outcomes.

Macro conditions matter, but they are variables you respond to, not variables you choose.

So the better question is not, "Is this the right time to invest?"

It is, "Is this a deal that makes sense given today's conditions, and am I protected if those conditions change?"

Discipline is what builds resilience. Timing only feels like skill in hindsight.

P.S. If you are evaluating a deal right now and want a second set of eyes on the underwriting, the structure, or the assumptions before you commit capital, feel free to send it over. I am happy to take a look.

05/25/2026

Exposure is not preparation.

Presence is not readiness.

Curriculum is not competence.

A G2 member can grow up around the family enterprise and absorb almost nothing operational.

Years of dinner-table conversation about a covenant breach, a personnel decision, or a quiet quarter can produce vocabulary without producing judgment.

Vocabulary lets them ask a polished question at the next family council meeting.

It does not let them notice that the question being asked is not the one that matters.

The IMD 2025 Global Family Office Report finds G2 already in charge of ownership and voting in 44% of family offices.

UBS reports that 43% of family offices view preparing the next generation to take on wealth responsibly as a challenge.

The plans exist.

The outcomes do not.

My latest Family Enterprise Brief article (link below) examines the difference between exposure and readiness, and the three things stewardship actually requires.

If your family or family office is working through what readiness looks like before the next governance role is assigned, I am always open to a conversation.

05/22/2026

A deal can look excellent on paper and still be structurally fragile.

That is the distinction many investors miss: the difference between a good deal and a durable deal.

A good deal shows strong projected returns, healthy cash flow, and an attractive business plan.

A durable deal asks a different question: What happens when reality does not cooperate?

Because markets move.

Interest rates shift.

Expenses rise.

Rent growth slows.

Liquidity tightens.

The real test is not whether the deal works in a stable environment.

It is whether the deal can absorb stress without forcing bad decisions.

That usually comes down to a few things:

- Conservative assumptions.

- Sufficient reserves.

- Manageable leverage.

- Strong break-even metrics.

- And perhaps most importantly, operator discipline under pressure.

A good deal can become a bad deal when conditions change.

A durable deal is built with enough room for error to adapt.

It may not always show the highest projected IRR.

But over time, durability tends to matter more than excitement, especially for passive investors and family enterprises focused on preserving capital across cycles.

The next time you review a deal, do not just ask whether it looks good.

Ask whether it is built to survive.

👀 If you are reviewing a multifamily opportunity and want a second set of eyes on the underwriting, structure, or downside risks, feel free to reach out privately. Happy to continue the conversation.

05/20/2026

A deal does not become fragile when the bridge loan matures.

It often becomes fragile the day the rate cap expires.

That is the quiet cliff many passive investors never see coming.

The property may still look stable on paper:

- Occupancy holding

- Rents inching up

- DSCR technically compliant

- Quarterly updates sounding calm

And yet distributions pause anyway.

Why?

Because the hedge underneath the debt rolled off, replacement costs surged, reserves tightened, and the liquidity assumptions inside the underwriting were finally exposed.

This is one of the more misunderstood risks in multifamily investing today.

Many investors treat a rate cap like insurance.

It is not.

It is a temporary hedge with an expiration date and a renewal cost the sponsor does NOT control.

What matters is not simply whether the deal has a cap today.

What matters is:

- Does it cover the full loan amount and full loan tenor?

- What happens if replacement costs double or triple?

- What assumptions are being made at refinance?

- Is the refinance truly fixed rate, or is a second cap quietly required?

This is where underwriting moves from spreadsheet mechanics to real-world survivability.

A deal can look stable right up until the hedge expires and reality reprices the risk.

I recently wrote a deeper piece on this topic: “When the Rate Cap Expires”

The article (link below) breaks down:

- The hidden exposure inside partial-term caps

- Why replacement pricing can become a capital event

- What LPs should be asking sponsors today

- How refinance assumptions could transfer risk to investors

The hedge is rarely the headline.

But it is often the line item the deal actually depends on.

P.S. If you would like a second set of eyes on a deal, want help pressure-testing underwriting assumptions, or simply want to continue the discussion privately, feel free to reach out.

I am always happy to connect with thoughtful investors and family offices focused on disciplined, risk-aware decision-making.

05/19/2026

Do you think that fraud is something that happens to other people?

That is exactly what makes it work.

James Brandolino ran a multimillion-dollar Ponzi scheme for eight years.

His investors were not reckless or naïve - they were high-net-worth individuals, advised by CPAs, attorneys, and financial professionals.

None of them caught it. Neither did the regulators.

James was never caught. He turned himself in.

After serving nearly six and a half years in federal prison, James now works on the other side - teaching investors and institutions how to spot the red flags everyone misses.

I am hosting James at my next Investor Party because this is the conversation most investors are not having - but should be.

He will walk us through exactly how he pulled it off, the social engineering tactics he used to disarm even the most sophisticated investors, and the due diligence steps that could have stopped him cold.

This will not be about fear.

It will be about sharpening our diligence lens, asking better questions, and protecting capital through better verification.

If you allocate capital passively, advise investors, or steward family wealth, I think you will find this conversation both eye-opening and highly practical.

📅 05/19/2026 (Tuesday)
🕗 4:30PM PT
📍 RSVP via the link in the comments ⬇️

05/18/2026

The families that never argue are not always the healthiest families.

Sometimes they are simply the families where disagreement became unsafe a long time ago.

That distinction matters more than most family offices realize.

Because conflict does not disappear when it is suppressed.

It compounds quietly until a liquidity event, succession decision, operating company transition, or trust distribution forces it into the open.

Then the family discovers whether it built governance, or just relied on deference.

In my latest Family Enterprise Brief article (link below), I explore the difference between healthy and unhealthy conflict in multi-generational families:

- Why the quietest families are often the most fragile

- How unspoken disagreement turns into legal and relational fracture under pressure

- Why governance structures matter more than emotional harmony alone

- What family councils, constitutions, and conflict escalation mechanisms actually prevent

- The hidden risk of waiting to build a conflict process until conflict already exists

One statistic stood out to me:

According to the 2025 Campden Wealth and RBC North America Family Office Report, only 31% of family offices have a formal conflict resolution mechanism in place, despite many identifying family conflict and misalignment as one of the greatest continuity risks.

That gap deserves more attention.

Healthy conflict is not the absence of disagreement.

It is disagreement that has a structure, a process, and a place to land before relationships and capital start absorbing the damage.

The question is not whether your family agrees today.

It is whether the structure still holds when the next generation disagrees, in writing, on a decision that cannot wait.

If you work with multi-generational families, family enterprises, or family offices and would like to continue the conversation privately, I would be glad to connect.

05/16/2026

Passive investing is not passive the moment real money is involved.

That idea may not photograph as well as the “pina coladas on the beach” version social media likes to sell.

But it is closer to reality.

Most people focus on what happens after they wire funds into a deal.

Very few talk honestly about what happens before and after the investment.

The years it takes to build the excess liquidity to invest in alternatives.

The education required to understand the asset class, the market, the operator, the debt structure, and the underwriting.

The discipline required to verify before trusting.

And the ongoing responsibility of monitoring reporting, spotting changes early, and asking uncomfortable questions before a capital call or paused distribution forces the issue.

Passive investing removes day-to-day operational responsibility.

It does not remove the need for judgment.

That distinction matters because many investment problems do not begin with fraud or bad intent.

They begin with false comfort.

Assuming the pref is guaranteed.

Assuming distributions equal durable cash flow.

Assuming a strong market compensates for weak underwriting.

Assuming “passive” means disengaged.

The investors who tend to navigate uncertainty best are usually not the ones chasing the highest projected returns.

They are the ones who stay intellectually engaged with their capital.

I wrote this article (link below) because I believe the industry needs a more honest conversation around what passive investing actually requires under real-world conditions.

Time, education, patience, and disciplined diligence still matter.

Especially when the market gets less forgiving.

➡️ If you would like a second set of eyes on a deal, or want to continue the conversation privately around underwriting, diligence, or passive investing risk, feel free to connect with me directly.

05/15/2026

Fraud does not start with deception.

It starts with trust.

And in many cases, well-earned trust.

That is why sophisticated investors may miss it.

James Brandolino did not target uninformed investors.

He built relationships with high-net-worth individuals who had advisors, structure, and experience.

They reviewed documents.

They asked questions.

They followed a process.

And still, no one saw it.

Not the investors.

Not the professionals around them.

He was never caught. He turned himself in.

That detail matters more than it seems.

Because it reframes the risk.

The exposure is not just bad actors.

It is the blind spots inside otherwise “good” diligence.

At the next Investor Party, I am hosting James to walk through exactly how that gap gets created.

- How trust is built.
- How questions get redirected.
- How confidence gets manufactured.
- And where the diligence process quietly breaks.

This is not a fear-based conversation.

It is a calibration.

A chance to sharpen how we verify, not just what we believe.

If you allocate capital, advise investors, or sit anywhere near the decision process, this will change how you evaluate risk.

📅 05/19/2026 (Tuesday)
🕗 4:30PM PT
📍 RSVP here (link is in the comments)

05/14/2026

A lot of multifamily deals still look fine on paper.

That is exactly why investors need to pay closer attention to the assumptions driving the projected returns.

In this pop up live, I discuss two underwriting assumptions I am watching especially carefully right now:
• Exit cap rates
• Rent growth assumptions

Small changes in either can materially impact valuation, refinance risk, cash flow durability, and ultimately investor outcomes.

The risk today is not always obvious distress.

It is optimistic underwriting quietly embedded inside otherwise reasonable-looking models.

Topics discussed:
• Why flat or compressed exit cap assumptions deserve scrutiny
• The danger of underwriting momentum instead of durability
• How multiple “small” optimistic assumptions can stack together
• Why sensitivity analysis matters more in uncertain markets
• What both passive and active investors should stress test before investing

The goal is not to predict the market perfectly.

It is to understand what happens when the forecast is wrong.

If you enjoy thoughtful conversations around multifamily underwriting, downside protection, governance, and risk-smart investing, feel free to subscribe and follow along.

And if you would like a second set of eyes on a deal or underwriting model, feel free to connect privately.

A lot of multifamily deals still look fine on paper.That is exactly why investors need to pay closer attention to the assumptions driving the projected retur...