The Gray Divorce Podcast

The Gray Divorce Podcast We help people going through a divorce save more of their money by assisting them work through the f Divorce is a stressful time.

Don't let the emotions of the moment lead you to make expensive mistakes that will harm your financial future. We will help you make well informed settlement decisions. Our goal is to help people through the financial issues of their divorce. To help them understand your options, reduce stress, save money and stay out of court

Andrew Hatherley can help you structure a creative divorce settlement

without incurring the mountain of costs typically associated with divorce. An active member of the financial services industry for over twenty years, and a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Andrew is dedicated to helping you preserve your assets. If you are a couple separating amicably, he will work with both of you to devise a settlement solution that lets you keep more of your own money. Andrew will also work as part of a divorce team, if you are already working with an attorney. Whether you are self-filing or working with an attorney, he will review your assets, make sure they are valued accurately, and inform you of ways to optimize your settlement with regard to taxes. As both a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and a Chartered Retirement Planning Counselor, Andrew provides the best insight to help plan for your financial health for the short and long term.

Looking forward to these presentations!
02/04/2026

Looking forward to these presentations!

05/19/2025

Ever struggled to speak your mind? Sometimes, the best listener is someone unattached to the outcome. Let's explore the art of unfiltered expression...

In the latest episode of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I’m joined by Nicole Comis, PCC a certified life and mindset coach.

Nicole and I explore how life after divorce—especially in mid-to-late life—can become a turning point for growth and renewal.

Nicole shares her personal journey from a high-income role in the mortgage industry to a more purpose-driven path, and how she now helps others navigate their own transformations after divorce.

05/18/2025

“Divorce isn’t just emotional — it’s financial.”

In this clip from my conversation with Tracy Ann Grant, founder of the Amicable Divorce Network, we dive into one of the most critical — and often underestimated — aspects of divorce: the financial impact.

From dividing assets to understanding long-term financial stability, many people leave the legal process with documents in hand but little clarity on how to move forward financially.

Tracy and I discuss why financial literacy and emotional support must go hand-in-hand during divorce, especially in gray divorce where the stakes can be even higher.

▶️ Watch the clip to hear how we can better support people through this complex transition.

Full episode: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/tracy-moore-grant/episodes/Chapter-11---Andrew-Hatherley-Gray-Divorce-e2vmv72

05/05/2025

I had the great pleasure of chatting with fellow podcaster Lisa McCluskey, MBA, host of The Silver Divorce Podcast.

We share our podcast stories and how we seek to educate, entertain and inspire older people going through divorce!

03/22/2025

It's Heeeeere! Divorce Amicably: Your Roadmap to Resolution. 📖

Some are calling it the "Divorce Dictionary."

I am a featured author: My chapters explore gray divorce and offer financial advice before, during and after divorce.

With over 80 essential topics, this book is a valuable resource for anyone looking to approach a divorce with confidence and resolution.

📅 Releases March 25, 2025
📖 Pre-order now: https://bit.ly/41DOXRX
🖊️ Meet the authors at the Amicable Divorce Book Launch! REGISTER HERE: https://bit.ly/4hNJfmp

02/10/2025

Vicious or virtuous?

Emerging from a traumatic situation can often lead to a vicious cycle of dangerous habits.

But we are more resilient than we know, and we have untapped strengths that can lead to a virtuous cycle of growth and fulfillment.

Your post-divorce journey is what you make of it. You have the power to turn obstacles into opportunities and create a life that truly reflects your strength, wisdom, and potential.

Thanks to John Drennen CDLP for the opportunity to discuss growth after gray divorce on his podcast!

What’s one positive change you made after a major life transition? Let’s share and inspire each other in the comments! hashtag hashtag hashtag hashtag

➡️ I am a financial advisor who works with mid-late life “gray divorcees” before, during and after divorce. Let me help you establish the financial foundation for a meaningful life.

01/31/2025

Do you know when to say no?

Are you a people pleaser who would rather defer to someone else's wishes just to “get along”?

Is your reluctance to set boundaries hurting your marriage?

Or are you in the middle of a divorce? Are you standing up for what's rightfully yours?

Maybe you're in your 60s or 70s and emerging from divorce and you see this as an opportunity to reset your life and grow personally. How can resetting boundaries help you live your best life ever?

Check out the current episode of The Gray Divorce Podcast as I discuss the subject of boundaries with Tracy Gould Sheinin. Amicable Divorce Network

Tracy is a specialist on the subject of boundaries and provides divorce mediation, mediation coaching and conflict coaching through her company, Clarity Mediation.



I work with mid-late life “gray divorcees” before, during and after divorce.

I help answer your questions, like:

🔶Am I going to be OK?
🔷 What do I do next regarding accounts mentioned in the divorce decree?
🔶How should I invest the funds I have after divorce to support my new life?
🔷How much longer will I have to work, or will I have to go back to work?

Listen to the full episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2067333/episodes/16406394

🌸 What’s your reason for getting up in the morning? 🌸In their insightful book, Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and...
01/28/2025

🌸 What’s your reason for getting up in the morning? 🌸

In their insightful book, Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life, Hector Garcia and Francesc Miralles dive into the wisdom of Ogimi, a Blue Zone village in Okinawa, Japan, known for its extraordinary number of centenarians. One of the most powerful lessons they share is the concept of Ikigai—a Japanese term that translates to “a reason for being.”

According to the Okinawans, Ikigai is the spark that gives your life meaning. For some, it’s a passion they’ve already discovered; for others, it’s something patiently waiting to be uncovered. As Garcia and Miralles explain, it’s hidden within all of us, and finding it requires a thoughtful and intentional search.

So, what is Ikigai? It’s where four essential elements of life intersect:

❤️ What you love
💪 What you’re good at
💼 What you can be paid for
🌍 What the world needs

When you align these four elements, you’re not just living—you’re thriving with purpose.

I talk more about Ikigai in Episode 29 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, but here’s a quick question to get you thinking: Where do you find joy, skill, value, and impact in your life?

Let’s start a conversation! What does Ikigai mean to you, and have you found your reason for being?

https://thegraydivorcepodcast.buzzsprout.com/2067333/episodes/16406355-blue-zones-ikigai-and-a-long-happy-life

Cobra is a good thing! 🐍Not the snake, although I'm sure they have their fans...And not the Ford Mustang Cobra. Although...
05/31/2023

Cobra is a good thing! 🐍

Not the snake, although I'm sure they have their fans...

And not the Ford Mustang Cobra. Although I do strongly recommend the movie Ford vs Ferrari! 🐎

No, I'm talking about: COBRA, or the Consolidated Omnibus Budget Reconciliation Act, which allows individuals who are no longer eligible for their employer-sponsored health insurance to continue coverage for a limited period of time.

This includes individuals who are going through a divorce and were covered under their spouse's employer-sponsored health insurance.

In the case of divorce, COBRA allows the non-employee spouse to continue their healthcare coverage under their ex-spouse's employer-sponsored plan for up to 36 months, twice as long as the typical 18 month extension. ⬅

It's important to note that the non-employee spouse will be responsible for the full cost of the coverage, which includes both the employee and employer contributions.

While COBRA can be a helpful option for those going through a divorce, it's important to carefully consider the costs and duration of coverage. In some cases, it may be more cost-effective to explore other healthcare coverage options, such as enrolling in an individual healthcare plan or seeking coverage through a new employer.

If you're going through a divorce and are concerned about healthcare coverage, speak with a qualified healthcare professional to determine what's best for your individual situation.

Overall, COBRA can provide a lifeline for individuals who are no longer eligible for their employer-sponsored health insurance due to divorce.

Just don't go poking around and wicker baskets when you hear a flute playing! 😮

I could post Orwell quotations every day... ❤️
05/30/2023

I could post Orwell quotations every day... ❤️

We are told we should live a balanced life. ⚖But is that accurate? Won't it hinder our success?I suppose that depends on...
05/29/2023

We are told we should live a balanced life. ⚖

But is that accurate? Won't it hinder our success?

I suppose that depends on how we define success. 🤔

I've been thinking a lot about the concepts of balance, success, and flow. It's not so simple to say that we should be leading balanced lives when activities that put us into a flow state may lead to a sense of euphoria and a great deal of success that, paradoxically, may also be accompanied by a great deal of unhappiness in other areas of our lives.

Consider John Lennon.

He wrote the song Help in 1965 at the height of Beatlemania. It could be argued that no other popular artist reached such a level of critical and commercial success.

When asked about the song in the 1970s, Lennon always referred to it as one of his favorites.

Why?

“Because I meant it” he said.

I'm always astounded by the fact that during an 18 month period (!!!) from the end of 1965 to the middle of 1967, The Beatles released the albums Rubber Soul, Revolver and Sergeant Pepper.

They also released the singles Penny Lane, Strawberry Fields Forever, Paperback Writer, We Can Work it Out, Day Tripper, and Rain.

😯

I'd say that John Lennon (and Paul McCartney) were in a state of flow.

Yet Lennon was unhappy.

Was it because his life was completely out of balance?

I couldn't find the citation, but I seem to remember Bob Dylan once saying that his greatest achievements in the mid-60s were written at a time when he was completely out of balance. I think he's even said that you can't write songs like that and have a balanced life.

So, is it a trade off?

Do we need to sacrifice some “success” in order to lead a more balanced and contented life? Or does it depend entirely on how we define success?

I think there is a constant push and pull between the categories in the wheel of life.

I don't think we are ever in a state of happiness for long. I do think something approaching contentedness is possible. And it might require us to enjoy or endure periods of imbalance.

I don't know. I'm musing. I'm curious to hear what you might think!

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