10/08/2026
STOP GUESSING WHAT YOU CAN AFFORD. 🏡
If you and your spouse or partner are thinking about buying a home, here are 4 simple numbers you can use to get a pretty good idea of what you can afford without even talking to a lender.
These examples are based on a household income of $250,000 per year, typically between two borrowers.
#1 Your comfortable payment 🏡
Take your monthly household income × 35%.
That gives you a good starting point for a mortgage payment that you can potentially afford while still having plenty of room in your budget to actually enjoy life.
#2 Your lender’s max 📊
Take your monthly household income × 50%, then subtract your monthly debts.
That gives you a rough idea of the maximum monthly housing payment a lender may allow based on your debt to income ratio.
And remember, what a lender will approve you for and what you actually feel comfortable paying can be two VERY different numbers.
#3 Your cash to close 💰
Take the purchase price × 6%.
That gives you a quick estimate of the total cash you may need to close, including your down payment, closing costs and prepaid expenses.
#4 Your safety net 🛟
Add up ALL of your monthly expenses, including your new mortgage payment.
Then multiply that number by 3 months.
Ideally, that’s the amount I’d want you to still have available after buying your home, whether it’s sitting in checking, savings, retirement or investment accounts.
The goal isn’t just to get you into a house.
It’s to get you into a house and make sure you’re still comfortable once you’re there.
Save this for when you’re ready to buy, and send it to someone who’s thinking about purchasing a home.
And remember, these are quick rules of thumb, not loan approval guidelines. Your actual numbers can vary based on your loan program, credit, assets, debts, taxes, insurance and more.
Know your numbers BEFORE you start house hunting.