05/28/2026
Today my wife turns 40, and I’ve been sitting here trying to figure out how to put into words what she means to me. I’m not sure I can do her justice, but I’ll try.
She is, without question, one of the most incredible human beings I have ever known. Anyone who has been lucky enough to spend time with her knows exactly what I’m talking about. You don’t just like her, you love her. She has that effect on people. It’s the warmth, the laugh, the way she makes everyone around her feel seen and important.
As a mother to Kyla and Juliette, she is everything our girls could ever ask for and more. The patience, the care, the way she shows up for them every single day, it’s something to witness. Our family works because of her. Whatever success we have, whatever joy lives in our home, she is the heart of all of it. I get too much credit for things she quietly makes happen behind the scenes.
Case in point: every single night this woman somehow prepares dinner for a carnivore, a vegetarian, and a health freak under one roof. Which, as you can imagine, is rarely one meal. It’s usually two. Sometimes three. She’ll never admit how insane that is, but the rest of us know. We don’t deserve her, but we’ll take her.
We met 17 years ago. I was a kid back then, and somehow I had the good sense to know she was special. We’ve been married almost 14 years this September, and she’s been my best friend through all of it. The good days, the hard ones, the ordinary Tuesdays that turn out to be the best ones. There is not a single other person on this planet I can be fully, completely myself around. Just her. And I cherish that every single day. It’s the rarest thing in the world and I know it.
And here’s the thing, I’m more excited about our future than I’ve ever been. 40 looks good on her. Whatever comes next, I get to do it with her, and that’s the best deal I’ve ever made.
Please do me a favor today and wish her a very happy birthday. Tell her how much you love her. She deserves to be celebrated loudly.
Happy birthday, my love. Kyla, Juliette, and I are so lucky. I love you more than you know. ❤️