Four Wings Consulting

03/12/2026

I'm not one to use sports references in my coaching, but I couldn't resist talking about Opening Day in baseball, and how it ties to our work as advisors. Read here for some inspo:

Opening Day in baseball starts the same way every year: every team is 0–0. For financial advisors, this is the perfect reminder that whether last year was a record breaker or a disappointment, success comes from showing up, practicing the fundamentals, and doing the work this season. ⚾

03/05/2026

Take a moment to remind yourself about the importance of starting your day off right: waking up at a consistent time each morning, creating a routine that works for you: journaling, meditation, devotions, a quiet coffee in bed before the kids wake up, a great workout, (NOT emails! Too much cognitive load), and ideally adding in a healthy breakfast (unless you’re a fan of intermittent fasting). Building consistency into the first 1-2 hours of your day sets the tone for how you intend the rest of the day will go.

Yesterday I was at a conference. On the left was my breakfast, and on the right was what the guy next to me chose for his.

Choices matter. Even the little ones. The many decisions we make (positive and negative) send reinforcing messages to our brain and our body, all day long.

You take care of a lot of people. This is a friendly reminder to not forget to take care of yourself.

In case you need to hear this today: You deserve a life filled with health, happiness, and vitality. Maybe today is the day you move yourself, and your own well being, a little higher up on your priority list.❤️💪🏼

02/06/2026

An important lesson from this little plant:

In September, I was throwing away all the dead flowers from my outdoor flower boxes. But this pink daisy was still in bloom and I couldn’t let her go. Instead, I took her inside, repotted her, and placed her near the window in the sunshine.

It’s February and 8 degrees in Massachusetts where I live. This daisy has been blooming all winter. On gloomy days, she occasionally closes up. On sunny days, she leans toward the rays and stands strong and tall. She’s bigger and brighter than ever.

I think about all of us in this business when I look at this plant. Don’t we all need to lean in, and get closer to the things that shine light on us? Yes, sometimes we close up on gloomy days. That’s understandable. Our job is not easy.

Today I want you to see these bright blossoms and remind yourself to put yourself in places where you’re surrounded by people who bring you light.

Even more important, let’s keep being the light for others. 💪🏼❤️ ☀️

01/27/2026

Still hammering out your goals for 2026? Here's some advice as you map out the year that will help you stay ahead!

This is the perfect time of year to make an appointment with yourself and map out your goals and intentions for the new year. But first make sure you are doing correct math as you plan out the next 12 months…

11/10/2025

Year-end is quickly approaching. It's time to pause and give yourself credit and recognition for everything you've accomplished in 2025. Read here for some perspective!

I’ve always insisted I’m not a runner—but what if my story about myself isn’t true? This month’s reflection is about redefining what we’re capable of when we stop labeling ourselves and start running our own race.

11/04/2025

What a fun morning teaching at Career Development School at the MassMutual home office! I loved the enthusiasm and willingness of new advisors to learn and grow!

09/09/2025

What a special trip back to to spend time with my friend and share Confetti Moments with her agency! Denver, I’ll be back soon!

08/23/2025

Special opportunity to share some Confetti Moments with the people of the Stockbridge Library! Thanks to library director for the invite! I’m loving this new community of ours!

08/06/2025

Taking on journaling for the month of August as a way to dream big about the next 5 years. Reading for inspiration. It’s fantastic! If you’re new to journaling, her book will help you get started. If you’ve been journaling for years like me, this book will certainly elevate your skills.

07/28/2025

Podcast of the Month: Top Advisor Podcast with Bill Cates

Each episode of Top Advisor Podcast is like a mini-masterclass in client acquisition, relationship-building, and referral strategy.

🎯 Why we’re hooked: Bill Cates blends expert guests with practical frameworks — all designed to help advisors grow smarter and more intentionally.

🔍 Available wherever you get your podcasts. Give it a listen, and tell us your favorite insight!

07/25/2025

Book of the Month: Uncomparable by Kristin Luke

Kristin Luke’s Uncomparable walks you through how to define your niche, communicate your value, and position your firm as the only choice — not just one of many.

📖 Why we love it: It gives tactical, marketing-savvy guidance without the fluff. Perfect for advisors ready to stand out in a crowded space.

👉 Grab a copy and let us know: what makes your practice Uncomparable?

https://www.amazon.com/Uncomparable-Financial-Advisors-Standing-Marketing/dp/1632996936

07/22/2025

In our coaching groups we regularly talk about integration—aligning values, work, and community in ways that feel both intentional and sustainable.

This is one example of what that can look like in action.

A simple event—offering headshots to the local community—became an opportunity to support a nonprofit, strengthen relationships, and create content that’s meaningful to share. Not because it checks a marketing box, but because it reflects what matters.

✨ This is marketing that doesn’t feel like marketing.
Rooted in purpose. Powered by connection. Shared with heart.

💡 What’s one small way you could integrate your people, your purpose, and your platform?