06/16/2026
I’m reading a really challenging book right now.
It’s dense.
It’s slow.
It’s the kind of book you have to wrestle with instead of consume.
The book?
The Tortoise and the Hare.
The older I get, the more I think it’s a lesson for me than it is for Roman.
Because the hare looks impressive.
Fast.
Talented.
Confident.
Hard to ignore.
But the tortoise understands something the hare doesn’t:
Pace matters.
I thought about that during Murph on Memorial Day.
For the first run, I was slow. Very slow.
There were guys out there running 5- and 6-minute miles, and I was one of the last ones back in after the first mile.
It would have been easy to feel behind.
But I knew what was coming.
100 pull-ups.
200 push-ups.
300 squats.
Another mile run.
So I stayed patient.
I paced the run.
Kept moving.
Didn’t redline too early.
And by the end, I finished in the top 5% of the workout.
Not because I was the fastest.
Because I didn’t burn out trying to look fast at the beginning.
That feels like a pretty good metaphor for life.
In business, fitness, family, and money, it is easy to admire speed.
The fast promotion.
The big exit.
The overnight success.
The aggressive investment.
The person who seems to be sprinting ahead.
But most durable things are built by people who know how to pace themselves.
A healthy marriage.
A strong family.
A resilient business.
A body that can carry responsibility.
A financial life that creates options.
The tortoise is not slow because he lacks ambition.
He is steady because he sees the big picture.
The goal is not to look fast.
The goal is to finish with something intact.
Your health.
Your relationships.
Your integrity.
Your peace.
Your ability to keep going.
This past Memorial Day, the best part wasn’t finishing near the top.
It was looking over and seeing Roman trying to do pushups next to me.
A reminder that the pace I choose is not just shaping my life.
It’s shaping what he sees as normal.
Less sprinting.
More compounding.
Be the tortoise.
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