10/10/2026
I had a client a couple of years ago who was completely convinced his pension expired on its tenth anniversary. He had built a piece of his whole retirement outlook around that belief. And the striking part was, he was so certain of it that he was never even going to pick up the phone to check.
So I made the call with him. Twenty minutes with the retirement system, and we had the answer. The pension did not expire at all. He had been carrying a false belief that was quietly shaping decisions about his money, and it simply was not true.
That is a bigger part of my job than people expect. Everybody has some bias or assumption they are working from, and almost nobody thinks they are the one who has it. So I poke around. I ask questions people do not expect in a polite conversation, because that is how the hidden beliefs come to the surface. Your beliefs drive your actions, and I want to make sure your actions are built on things that are actually true.
Sometimes the most valuable thing I do is not recommend a product at all. It is to catch the one wrong thing someone has been certain about for years, before it costs them.
We have to square off with reality, gently, and deal with what is actually there instead of what we assume is there.
Is there something about your own finances you are completely sure of that you have never actually stopped to verify?