10/17/2026
Net Worth of $205k, am I screwed?
Stop comparing yourself to others, it really doesn't matter.
I see it all the time.
People look at:
Their 401k balance
Their IRAs
Their brokerage accounts
Their debt balance
Their Net Worth
And they'll ask me,
"Am I screwed?"
"What do others have in my situation?"
"I think I am behind."
All these questions are the wrong question to ask because they are rooted in comparing yourself to other people.
And the truth is it doesn't matter what others are doing.
It doesn't matter what other people's net worth is.
It doesn't matter what their 401k is worth.
What matters is where you are relative to what YOU want for your life.
To be able to answer a question like "Are you behind?" takes knowing things about what you want in your life.
"When do you want to retire?"
"How much do you want to spend?"
"Where do you want to live?"
Once you can answer those then you'll know if you are on track for YOUR goals or not.
And that's what matter.
So stop comparing yourself to other people.
Focus on your path, your goals and where you are relative to that.