02/19/2026
Shmueli’s Upsherin
A recent past Sunday, I flew to Atlanta to spend the day with my son, and his family, since this was the day that their youngest son, their #5 son, and their #7 child, had his Upsherin. Until he is the age of 3, his parents let his hair grow uncut. He then has it clipped in an ad hoc ceremony, where Rabbis, relatives, and friends cut locks from what was his quite beautiful head of very dark hair. A professional barber comes in and makes order out of chaos and random cuts.
Light food is served, and from this point on, he begins studying his letters. He begins the road to reading and literacy. On this day he begins being taught the alphabet.
Years ago, my mother gave me a picture of me before the Upsherin picture. Mom, who I never perceived as cruel, put them in curlers, to make my hair look more attractive. Being around three, I did not realize what was happening and probably didn’t care.
The idea of committing oneself to being literate at early age fosters into a family that books, studying and reading are important. It is not surprising that as you mature you keep that thirst for knowledge throughout your whole life. That I am a lifelong learner is cultural and expected. I am not surprised at all by this trajectory since we are after all the People of the Book!