08/14/2025
"I have money. It's trust and character I need around me." - Han Lue. How a $4,300 dinner taught me the money is a magnifier...
My first formal dinner as a financial advisor.
12 of us were invited.
We wined & dined!
When the check arrived, I said...
We didn't talk any business.
Yes, Larry, so what?
I'm not blind. I know how much this costs.
Welcome to the club, Larry! You are one of us now. Enjoy!
It didn't feel right to me.
I then looked at the bill.
$4,300!
I thanked the host & offered to stay after to learn more.
What I learned from him...priceless!
β‘οΈ Money is a magnifier!
βͺοΈ Throw money at people, and you will learn a lot about them.
β‘οΈ Short-term people
βͺοΈ Are transactional
βͺοΈ Don't care about relationships.
βͺοΈ Don't care about win-win.
βͺοΈ Care only how they win.
βͺοΈ Focus is short-term benefits.
β‘οΈ Long-term people
βͺοΈ Care about relationships vs transactions.
βͺοΈ Care about win-win.
βͺοΈ Short-term benefits are good.
βͺοΈ Long-term benefits are better.
The host knew what he was doing.
βͺοΈ He threw money.
βͺοΈ Amplified every one of us.
βͺοΈ Saw our true colors.
Always know who you are doing business with!
β‘οΈ Money is an amplifier.
β‘οΈ Short-term people
β‘οΈ Long-term people
When building your wealth, choose wisely who you surround yourself and work with!
"I have money. It's trust and character I need around me." - Han Lue.
Find the advisor the advisor who you can trust and has the character you need.
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