09/30/2026
Healthy, Wealthy, & Wise Wednesday-Friendfillment
"What is a friend? I will tell you.
It is a person with whom you dare to be yourself. Your soul can be naked with him. He seems to ask of you to put on nothing, only to be what you are. He does not want you to be better, or worse. When you are with him, you feel as a prisoner feels who has been declared innocent. You do not have to be on your guard. You can say what you think, so long as it is genuinely you. He understands those contradictions in your nature that lead others to misjudge you.
With him you breathe freely. You can avow your little vanities and envies and hates and vicious sparks, your meannesses and absurdities and, in opening them up to him, they are lost, dissolved on the white ocean of his loyalty. He understands. You do not have to be careful. You can abuse him, neglect him, tolerate him. Best of all, you can keep still with him. It makes no matter. He likes you. He is like fire that purges to the bone. He understands. He understands. You can weep with him, sin with him, laugh with him, pray with him. Through it all—and underneath—he sees, knows and loves you.
A friend? What is a friend? Just one, I repeat, with whom you dare to be yourself." ~ C. Raymond Beran
My oldest, nearest and dearest friends gathered for our annual trip a couple weeks ago in Isle of Palms. While I never take these friendships for granted, the reality of our busy lives mean that we can go months without seeing each other or catching up regularly. That's why time together feels so special. Laughing until your sides hurt, reminiscing about old memories, sharing life's challenges, and encouraging one another though whatever season comes next.
Some of these friendships began in elementary school while others formed during middle and high school. Over the years, we have each experienced our own triumphs and trials. We have navigated career changes, marriages, divorces, raising children, caring for aging parents, tragic losses, health challenges, and countless other unexpected twists that life inevitably brings. Through it all, these friends have remained a steady source of support, perspective, and joy.
Friendships work in much the same way as building wealth over time. Rarely is it built in one grand event. Rather, it is investing consistently over time. Small, intentional deposits made year after year. And the returns on those investments can be extraordinary!
A truly rich life is measured by more than account balances or a net worth statement. Some of the best dividends in life come from our relationships that stand the test of time.
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