06/15/2026
One of the biggest misconceptions about life insurance is that you're supposed to need it forever.
You're not.
In fact, if everything goes according to plan, you should eventually outgrow your need for life insurance.
This concept is called the Theory of Decreasing Responsibility.
When you're young, your financial responsibilities are usually at their highest. You may have a mortgage, car loans, young children, little savings, and decades of future income that your family depends on. If something happened to you during this stage of life, the financial impact on your family could be devastating. That's where life insurance comes in.
As the years go by, however, something interesting happens.
Your mortgage balance gets smaller.
Your children grow up and become financially independent.
Your debts get paid off.
Your retirement accounts grow.
Your investments grow.
Your savings grow.
Your financial responsibilities decrease while your assets increase.
Eventually, if you've been consistently saving and investing, there comes a point where your family no longer needs a life insurance company to provide a pile of money because you've already built your own.
That's why I often explain term life insurance this way:
You're temporarily renting a pile of money while you build your own pile of money.
Let's say a 35-year-old parent buys a $500,000 term policy. They don't necessarily need that $500,000 forever. They need it while they're raising children, paying off debt, and building wealth.
Over the next 20 or 30 years, the goal is to accumulate enough savings and investments that the insurance becomes unnecessary. At that point, the pile of money you own has replaced the pile of money you were renting.
That's why I don't view life insurance as a permanent solution. I view it as a temporary tool that helps protect your family during the years when they are most financially vulnerable.
The ultimate goal isn't to die with life insurance. The ultimate goal is to become financially independent enough that you no longer need it.
That's why I recommend term life insurance.
It protects your family while you're building wealth, and ideally one day, you've built enough wealth that the insurance company is no longer needed.