07/18/2024
When my husband and I were younger, we were in A LOT of debt.
We had car loans, personal loans, credit cards, 401k loans, family loans. You name it, we had it.
Most of those loans were made in two types of situations:
1) Either we were feeling great financially and thought we could handle another payment, or
2) we were feeling the pinch and needing to create some financial breathing room and taking out or moving debt around seemed to be the answer.
In both types of situations, all we focused on were the positives of what this new debt was going to do for us.
We imagined the best case scenario where he always got the same amount of overtime, our bills never went up, and there was never an emergency room visit.
It wasn’t until after the dotted line was signed and we started experiencing the financial changes and pressures in life that we started to question whether we had made the right move.
By then it was too late and this loan that was supposed to save us was putting us in an even worse position than before.
It took a while for us to realize that the best decision to create peace in our life was to pay off and avoid debt altogether and we haven’t looked back since.