05/11/2026
Four estate planning myths that could cost your family
Consider this scenario: A teacher of 30 years and mother of three passes away at age 58. She leaves behind a modest home, a retirement account and cherished family heirlooms – but no estate plan. Her children, still grieving, find themselves navigating a confusing probate process, disagreeing about when to sell the house and considering who gets their grandmother's ring.
This mom wasn't wealthy by most measures, but her lack of planning created confusion, conflict and uncertainty at a time when her family needed clarity. Estate planning is about easing conflict and making sure what you have goes where you want it to go.
Myth 1: Estate planning is only for wealthy people.
Without a plan, your state's laws will decide how your estate is handled, and you may not like what those laws say.
Myth 2: Having a will is all you need.
While a will is important, it only takes effect after death. The foundation of most estate plans includes a will (which directs asset distribution), a financial power of attorney (for financial decisions),a health care power of attorney (for medical decisions), and a medical directive (to share your end of life wishes). While not everyone needs a trust, there are several that allow you to make special provisions, such as for minor children, a special needs family member or even a cherished pet.
Myth 3: Equal distribution is always fair.
You may have one child who’s extremely successful financially while another is struggling. Or you may have assets, such as a house or ownership of a family business, that are more suitable for one beneficiary than another. It's important to consider any unique circumstances as you develop your estate plan.
Myth 4: I can set it and forget it.
You'll want to review your estate plan every few years or when a major life event occurs. Life is full of changes, such as marriages, divorces, new children and relocations, and they will likely impact your goals.
Ultimately, estate planning is about helping ensure your voice is heard and your loved ones cared for, no matter what the future holds.
This article was written by Edward Jones for use by
Monica McGauley, CFP®, AAMS™
Financial Advisor at Edward Jones, Member SIPC