06/16/2025
š¢ Leaders, like it or notāyouāre living in a fishbowl. š
People watch how you lead even when you think they arenāt.
Are you setting the right example?
Are you influencing intentionally?
Read the Leadership Tip below for 6 practical ways to lead by example. š
Leadership Tip: The Power of What Your Team Sees (Not Just What You Say)
"My role model didnāt tell me, he showed me." ā Anonymous
Like it or not, if youāre in a leadership role, you live in a fishbowl.
People watch you, whether you notice or not. They observe, judge, and often imitate your behaviorāgood or bad.
By definition, a leader holds authority and influence. You influence others whether you intend to or not. Sometimes this influence is activeāyouāre coaching an employee, managing a project, leading a meeting. Other times, itās passive and happens simply through your presence:
⢠The clothes you wear.
⢠The time you arrive or leave.
⢠How you handle an unexpected interruption.
⢠The words you chooseāor donāt.
⢠The expression on your face during a teachable moment.
Is this fair? No. Is it reality? Yes.
If you are called to a leadership role, you are leadingāall the time.
Do you have to be perfect? Absolutely not.
But striving to improve is key. Adopting a growth mindset will serve you well.
Here are six practical tips to help you lead by example:
1. Be aware. Pay attention.
Leadership is not just about you. Notice how others perceive your actions. Do people seek you out in times of need, or avoid you? Awareness is the first step toward intentional influence.
2. Adjust your style.
Flex your leadership to meet individual needs. People must look your way before theyāll listen to what you say. Help them improve and develop a love of lifelong learning.
3. Be able to say āIām sorry.ā
You will make mistakesāwe all do. Saying, āIām sorry. I wish Iād handled that differently,ā goes a long way toward building trust.
4. Hold people accountable.
Being kind doesnāt mean letting things slide. Address performance issues while preserving dignity. Coach and correct with empathy, but without lowering expectations.
5. Be a role model.
Set the tone. Dress the part. Work in a way that benefits your team. Communicate clearly and often. Be consistent. Your team shouldnāt have to wonder what mood youāre in today.
6. Find a trusted sounding board.
Have a colleague you can be real withāsomeone who will tell you the truth. And remember: Always vent across or up, never down. Your staff should not bear the weight of your frustrations.
I view leadership as an honor and a responsibility. My goal is to positively influence those around me, so they can do the same for others. Thatās how great cultures are builtāone interaction at a time.
"You get the best efforts from others not by lighting a fire beneath them, but by building a fire within." ā Bob Nelson
"Outstanding leaders go out of their way to boost the self-esteem of their personnel. If people believe in themselves, itās amazing what they can accomplish." ā Sam Walton