05/19/2026
$737 a month is why you feel poor. Not the dinners out.
I have conversations every week with people who make $300,000+ and what blows me away is how many of them feel like they don’t have money to do what they actually want.
Take nice vacations with their kids. Join a country club. Accelerate their retirement.
And then I ask about their fixed expenses.
“Well I needed a new car. My old one had 97,000 miles.”
No you didn’t.
That $737/month is $9,000 a year. That’s a family trip to Europe. That’s a meaningful retirement contribution. That’s the country club membership you keep saying you can’t afford.
I’m not saying drive a be**er. Drive whatever makes you happy.
Just be honest about the tradeoff.
Because if you really thought about it, the car sitting in your driveway probably wasn’t worth everything you gave up to have it.