10/13/2026
One of the greatest gifts we can give our children is to NOT end up as a line item on their household budget.
Think about that for a minute.
The time in your life when you might need financial help from your adult children could be right around the time your grandchildren are getting ready for college themselves.
That's why I believe college funding should always be considered in the context of your own retirement plan.
Assuming you're on track to fund your own retirement, let's talk about paying for college.
*College Funding: The Stair Step Approach*
I've worked with a number of families who spent their early child-rearing years working their way up to saving 20% of their gross income towards retirement.
The kids are now in middle school and Mom and Dad realize they haven't saved much for college.
The good news?
Their careers have progressed. Their incomes have grown. But they've been smart about keeping their lifestyle from growing at the same pace.
They've got some extra cash flow to work with.
Here's an approach I like.
Think about one of those pedestrian bridges that crosses over a busy highway. You climb the stairs on one side, cross the bridge, and then walk down the stairs on the other side.
College funding can work much the same way.
Let's use an example:
Your child is entering 8th grade. You've got five years before college.
You can comfortably set aside $750 per month.
You begin funding a 529 college savings plan. Depending on your state's rules, you may even qualify for a state income tax deduction.
Assuming a 6% annual return, five years of $750 monthly contributions could grow to approximately $52,000.
Now your child graduates from high school.
You've reached the top of the bridge.
Here's where it gets interesting.
That $750 per month is already built into your household budget. You're accustomed to living without it.
So why stop?
Instead of putting $750 per month towards future college expenses, you redirect it towards current college expenses.
At the same time, you begin drawing down the money you've already accumulated in the 529 plan.
Assuming the same 6% return during college, the combination could provide approximately $23,750 per year for four years, exhausting the account around graduation.
That's roughly $95,000 towards a college education from a monthly commitment of $750, started when your child was in 8th grade.
Will it pay for every college? No.
Will markets deliver a steady 6% return?
Certainly not.
But it demonstrates how a family that got a late start on college savings can still make a meaningful dent in the cost of an education.
And here's what I particularly like about this approach.
**You don't have to choose between helping your children pay for college and protecting your own retirement.**
Because someday those children may have college tuition bills of their own.
And the last thing I want for them is to have Mom and Dad's retirement bills showing up at the same time.