02/11/2026
How to talk to your parents about making a Will? Most of us know our parents should sort out a Will and an LPA. Almost nobody knows how to bring it up.
Six things that help:
1. Don’t open with death. Open with control. “I want to make sure it’s your wishes that get followed, not someone else’s guess.”
2. Borrow someone’s story. “A friend’s family just went through this.” It’s far less confronting than making it about them.
3. Start with the LPA, not the Will. It’s about their life while they’re living it, so it feels a lot less heavy.
4. Ask, don’t tell. “Have you thought about who you’d want making decisions if you couldn’t?” A question invites. A plan threatens.
5. Never at a family gathering with all the siblings in the room. It feels like an ambush.
6. Offer to go with them. You’re not taking over, you’re going along.
Send this to whichever sibling needs it.
If your parents would rather hear it from a neutral third party, book a free estate planning consultation. Bring them along, or come first yourself, no obligation. Link in bio.
The love you give should endure for generations to come.
General information only, not legal advice. Every family is different.