27/07/2026
Being present for every single one of my daughter’s 'firsts' came down to a decision I made at 30.
When i first entered the workforce, my goal was simple: Work hard, build a stable career, and hit the standard milestones. Back then, I didn't think much about time. Most people probably wouldn't too.
Then at 30, I got married and got the keys to our BTO. Suddenly, the future felt very real.
I remember looking at my aging parents, and I thought about the family my wife and I wanted to build. I knew I wanted kids, but more than that, I knew I wanted to actually be "present" for them, and be there for my parents as they grew older. Not forgetting my parents-in-law too.
That was the exact moment I realized my current trajectory wasn't going to give me the time freedom I needed. So, I made the decision to switch career, ditching everything i had built by then.
Looking back, it was the best decision I ever made.
Because I made that switch when I did, I didn't have to miss my daughter’s big milestones. I was there for every single one of her "firsts."
And when my parents eventually faced health issues that required monthly medical follow-ups, treatments, and surgery, I didn't have to ask an HR manager for permission or negotiate for leave with my boss. I could simply put family first and be there every single time.
If you’re currently in your 20s, you might not be thinking about these things yet. But it’s the best time to start asking yourself: "What kind of future do you actually want to design?"
And if you’re in your 30s-40s, sitting at a crossroad, thinking about your aging parents or your young family, I want you to know there is always other paths where you don't have to sacrifice your life's priorities just to earn a living.
For me, it was an easy decision because i knew what i wanted. Getting into financial advisory made sense to me, because i love working with numbers, people, and the whole idea of doing well by doing good just fits me so perfectly. But more than that, it completely changed my family's quality of life.
Looking back, I’m just deeply grateful I made the switch when I did.
Whether you're in your early 20s just starting out, or in your 30s navigating these exact life milestones, I hope sharing this help serves as a gentle reminder:
"Your time is the one resource you can never earn back. Make sure you're spending it on what truly matters."