05/06/2026
It is okay to be generous and take care of your loved ones, but if you are always last on your own list, you are building everyone else’s life except your own.
Filipinos are undeniably generous people. We send money home, we help when someone needs it, and sometimes we barely spend on ourselves. There is nothing wrong with that.
But generosity without a plan for yourself means years of hard work with nothing to show for it at the end.
The fix is simple but most people never do it. Pay yourself first. Before everything else, a fixed portion of your salary goes somewhere that grows. What is left is what you work with.
You can still take care of everyone around you. You just have to make sure your future is part of that list too.
If you are a Filipino building your life in Singapore, follow along. This is exactly what we talk about here.