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19/05/2026

A must read.

17/05/2026

Everyone gets a prenup — you either intentionally create one yourselves, or the laws of the state create one for you.

Marriage is emotional, spiritual, and legal. A nikah/marriage certificate is ultimately a contract recognized by the court.

Marriage is legally viewed as a partnership.

Even if one spouse is not earning income outside the home, unpaid labor still has value: pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding, raising children, managing the home, emotional labor, and supporting a spouse’s career.

When divorce happens, the two biggest issues usually become:
• Child custody/support
• Division of financial assets

What will custody look like when children are young?

Some couples may choose to discuss:
• Children remaining primarily with the mother during breastfeeding years ; or younger years
• Structured visitation schedules
• Decision-making responsibilities

How will children’s expenses be divided?
• Health insurance
• Childcare
• Extracurriculars
• School tuition
• Medical expenses
• College savings

FINANCIAL ASSETS

In many states, assets built during the marriage are considered joint property — even if only one person’s name is on the deed or account.

Important conversations include:
• Retirement accounts
• Health insurance coverage
• Savings contributions
• Separate personal accounts
• Emergency funds
• Expectations regarding work, childcare, and household responsibilities

Love is important.
But clarity, transparency, and intentional planning matter too.

17/05/2026

“When exactly did patriarchy enter?” 👀

Women questioned the Prophet ﷺ — the Creator Himself answered with verses in the Quran.

The Quran was initially speaking in the constitutional language — “men are created equal.”

Women then asked: Are these promises, rewards, and responsibilities only for men? What about women?

And Allah ﷻ answered with revelation.

We have powerful women to look up to :

Nusaybah — the warrior who defended the Prophet ﷺ in battle.

Khadija RA — a businesswoman.

Aisha RA — narrating and teaching so much of the Hadith and knowledge we have today.

Our daughters deserve to know that Islamic history is filled with women of strength, scholarship, leadership, compassion, and conviction — not silence.

16/05/2026

Shariah law was meant to bring justice and responsibility — not excuses.

Is marital asset a western concept or Islamic??

Remember, shariah law can change based on the time/culture you are living in… perfect example is alcohol. It was prohibited over time since it was so rampant in the society.

15/05/2026

My 5-year-old:
“Your mom never told you she loved you??!?”

Me: “No.”
(Not that I blame her, it was different times.)

5-year-old:
“You should get a new mom!!!.” 😭

Me, imagining telling my desi mother I need to replace her and seeing the shoes 👞 flying

But this is exactly why those “second wife” jokes aren’t harmless. Repeated jokes about replacing a spouse damage trust, safety, and respect in a relationship.

If it would be deeply hurtful and unacceptable to say to your own mother — “I’ll replace you” — why normalize saying it to a spouse?

Words matter. Jokes shape culture. Kids are listening.

Let’s model love, loyalty, and emotional safety better for the next generation 🤍

(And as a side note — if this is what BOTH people in a relationship want, that is their choice. I don’t believe most men in this day and age can truly fulfill the emotional, financial, and time responsibilities of more than one wife equally. Even the Quran discourages it due to fear of not being able maintain fairness.

13/05/2026

POV: The “quiet” morning routine 🙃

✔️ Morning run + stretch
✔️ Fajr
✔️ 3 kids up, dressed, breakfast, and ready for school
✔️ 3 lunches packed
✔️ School drop-off completed
✔️ Coffee date with the mama crew
✔️ Clocked into work by 9

Some mornings feel like a full marathon before the actual workday even begins 😂🤍

12/05/2026

Fight over child support?

YAS 😅

The arguments should be:
“I WANT to pay more.”
“I WANT to pay for this activity.”
“No, let me cover that one.” 😅

Anyone with true understanding of Islam will feel honored to contribute toward raising their children.

Somewhere along the way, our perspective became limited by dunya — money, ego, control, resentment, “mine vs yours” — while forgetting how temporary this world truly is.

We live as if accountability and death are for “other people.”
As if the grave is for someone else… not us.

But every soul returns to Allah.

For women especially — there is NO loss. Financially, there is no obligation to contribute, yet if she does, it becomes multiplied sadaqah.

For men — providing for your children is both an obligation and an opportunity for immense reward. Every good your child does can continue as flowing rewards (sadaqah jariyah).

Children are not financial burdens to resent. They are an amanah, a blessing, and an investment for the akhirah.

May Allah soften our hearts and allow us to see beyond the temporary nature of this dunya.

From dreading those first few barber visits … to casually walking in like the aunty 😅💙Funny how the things you once felt...
09/05/2026

From dreading those first few barber visits … to casually walking in like the aunty 😅💙

Funny how the things you once felt nervous about become part of your strength.

Alhumdulillah, for being able to show up to every single haircut — no invoices created, just love and consistency ♥️

Shout out to all the single moms, and the “single married moms” quietly carrying it all.

Happy Mother’s Day 🌷

08/05/2026

Women are being attacked for “glorifying divorce,” but - women are questioned no matter what.

No woman walks away from a healthy marriage with young children without deep pain, fear, and exhaustion.

We are the aunties of the millennial generation telling women:
Walk away from abuse.
Do not become another statistic.
Your life is worth saving.

You should never have to leave your home in the middle of the night with little children just to find safety. Home is supposed to be your safety.

And for the women staying only out of fear of finances, remember Allah’s promise:

“And whoever fears Allah — He will make for him a way out and provide for him from where he does not expect.”
— Surah At-Talaq 65:2–3

“And if they separate, Allah will enrich each of them from His abundance.”
— Surah An-Nisa 4:130

Allah never commanded women to remain trapped in oppression for financial survival. Rizq comes from Him, not from enduring abuse.

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