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✨ 41 ✨At 40, you grow up—you mature, you embrace responsibility, you become the “adult in the room.” You set goals and a...
23/08/2025

✨ 41 ✨

At 40, you grow up—you mature, you embrace responsibility, you become the “adult in the room.” You set goals and accomplish them, like publishing a book! 📚✨

At 41… you realize growing up isn’t all it’s made out to be.

You circle back and embrace your childhood.

Life isn’t just about bills, careers, or checklists.

It’s about blowing bubbles in the sunshine, flying kites that dance with the wind, tallying up the fish you caught, eating parathas hot off the pan, embracing the people who truly love you, and finding joy in little things.

You stop chasing and start receiving. You set boundaries.

No more filling cups that don’t refill.

Here’s to year 41:
🌸 More play
🌸 More presence
🌸 More childlike wonder

Cheers to growing older and growing lighter.

My Best Investments with the Highest ROI(Other than sunglasses—which I keep forgetting to take… but desperately need to ...
15/08/2025

My Best Investments with the Highest ROI

(Other than sunglasses—which I keep forgetting to take… but desperately need to prevent migraines 😅)

1️⃣ Hajj – $17,000→ Priceless. Nothing else compares.
2️⃣ Medical School – $450K, 4 years of school + 4 years residency + 1 year fellowship. Time and money well spent.
3️⃣ Working Part-Time – Half the salary, double the presence. Being there for my kids, taking time off when they’re off—priceless.
4️⃣ Buying Time – Outsourcing cleaning & cooking. We all get 24 hrs/day… learning to spend them well.
5️⃣ Books & Learning – Knowledge compounds. Our minds are our best investments.

💡 Not all ROI is measured in dollars.

His Money is His Money?”👩🏽‍⚕️ (1st—what I talk about here isn’t just my personal experience. I’ve had so many women shar...
02/08/2025

His Money is His Money?”
👩🏽‍⚕️ (1st—what I talk about here isn’t just my personal experience. I’ve had so many women share their stories with me.)

Let me tell you about one that keeps coming up:

She was the doctor bahu—the daughter-in-law brought in for her degrees, her ambition, her potential.

And then, lovingly, willingly, she gave it all up. Because she was told—your most important job is to raise the kids.

And she did.

Now the kids are grown. The husband? He provided just enough—‘roof over your head, food on the table,’ because that’s all he was ever obligated to provide.

Now he wants someone new.

And she’s told—‘You’re only entitled to your mehr and three months of iddat support.

After that—you’re on your own.’

All the property? Under his name.
�The bank accounts? His.
�The assets? Legally? His.

And the m***i says: ‘Marital asset division is a western concept.’

But here's the truth: Nikah is a contract. And like any contract, it was meant to protect both parties—during marriage, and especially afterdivorce.

So what’s the solution? It be utilized as prenuptial agreement.

🧕🏽 Muslim women need to start treating the nikah like the legal agreement it is.
✅ If you’re giving up your career, include compensation in case of divorce.
✅ If you’re buying a home during marriage—put your name on the deed.
✅ Keep a bank account in your name.
✅ These aren’t selfish asks. These are your Islamic rights.

Islam doesn’t reward you for neglecting yourself.
Your body, your mind, your well-being—are all an amana. A sacred trust.

It’s not piety to lose yourself. It’s wisdom to protect yourself.

Let’s stop romanticizing sacrifice. And start prioritizing self-care.
🔁 Share this with every sister who needs to hear it.
🖊️ Follow for more financial & emotional tools.

🧕🏽💔 Marriage in Islam — Reimagine Mahr"They are clothing for you, and you are clothing for them.""And We created you in ...
01/08/2025

🧕🏽💔 Marriage in Islam — Reimagine Mahr

"They are clothing for you, and you are clothing for them."
"And We created you in pairs." — Qur’an

Marriage in Islam is meant to be sacred, intimate, and protective.
But what happens when these values are twisted in today’s world?

⚖️ The Crisis No One Talks About
Until I went through my own divorce, I didn’t realize how Islamic laws around marriage and money are often misused—to the disadvantage of women.

Here’s the argument many women hear:

“If you didn’t contribute financially to the home, you have no right to your husband’s wealth.”

Really?

👩‍👧‍👦 What About the Stay-at-Home Parent?
Let’s be honest. The stay-at-home parent (usually the mother) is:

➡️ Giving up her career
➡️ Cooking, cleaning, coordinating
➡️ Caring for the children
➡️ Managing school pick-ups, sick days, emotional labor
➡️ Sacrificing years of income and retirement savings

If you had to hire someone to do all that—it would cost over six figures annually.

To say she didn’t “contribute financially” is not just wrong—it’s insulting.

💰 Where’s the Fairness?
💼 Women are working and taking on the bulk of childcare
🧸 Fathers can refuse to pay for childcare—calling it “the mother’s job”
📉 And still claim: “She has no right to my income”

This is not Islam.
It’s injustice wearing the mask of religion.

📿 What Islam Really Intended
Islam mandated mahr (marriage gift) to honor and protect the woman.
Maybe it’s time to reimagine mahr:

💸 A portion of the husband’s income set aside annually
📈 A financial plan for the stay-at-home parent
🔐 Real security—not just symbolic gestures

🧕🏽 Let’s Talk
I’m still reflecting. I don’t have all the answers.
But I plan to invite scholars, m***is—and you—into this conversation.

Because Islam was never meant to oppress.
It was meant to protect.

💬 Do you agree?
Should the stay-at-home parent be entitled to the wealth built during marriage?
Let’s talk about it 👇🏽



A Just Economy: The Concept of RibaThis was the very first section I wrote for Wealthy Muslim Women.Not because it was e...
30/07/2025

A Just Economy: The Concept of Riba

This was the very first section I wrote for Wealthy Muslim Women.
Not because it was easy—
But because it was terrifying.

I wrote it trembling.
The fear was real: “What if I have it all wrong?
Will I be guiding people away from the truth?”

Ultimately, my goal is education.
To share both perspectives, present all options—and let you decide.

Riba isn’t just a financial term.
It’s emotionally charged, spiritually heavy, and deeply personal for many of us.

Riba was prohibited in Islam to prevent the exploitation of the poor—
A safeguard against the unchecked accumulation of wealth by the elite
at the expense of those with the least.

So here’s the big question:
Is all modern-day banking interest the same as riba?

Today, we see financial products labeled “shariah-compliant.”
But they often cost more than conventional options.
Does that truly eliminate exploitation?

If we simply rename “interest” as a “fee” or “charge,”
Does that undo the imbalance of power riba was meant to prevent?

I’m relieved—and inspired—to see modern scholars courageously engaging in this debate.
Rethinking banking interest through the original lens of economic justice.

Because that’s what riba was ultimately about.

We need to talk about this—again and again.
Not to point fingers,
But to open minds.

We cannot build something sacred
on a foundation of silence and fear.

Let’s keep asking the hard questions—
Even if the answers are still unfolding.

How One Investment led to Hajj:The financial reality of Hajj today is heartbreaking. For many, this sacred obligation ha...
22/06/2025

How One Investment led to Hajj:

The financial reality of Hajj today is heartbreaking.

For many, this sacred obligation has started to feel more like a luxury than a pillar of faith.

But with intentional planning and smart investing, it is possible.

In 2019, I invested $4,823.80 into an individual stock. I didn’t do it with the goal of funding Hajj.

In fact, I rarely invest in individual stocks—

By 2025, that investment had grown to $16,316—more than enough to cover the Hajj package I had my heart set on (~$16,109).

💡 Key Takeaways:

1. Inflation quietly eats away at your money.
What could’ve bought a full Hajj package in 2019 (around $5K) wouldn’t even come close in 2025. The value of money depreciates over time—unless it’s growing.

2. Long-term investing works.
Returns aren’t instant. In fact, right after I invested, my $4,823 dropped to $3,571. That’s the risk of individual stocks—you can lose it all.

That’s why I typically recommend mutual funds or index funds for long-term stability.

3. Markets can change rapidly.
My investment peaked above $16K in January—right before Hajj packages opened. But by the time I needed to transfer funds, the market dipped.

Lesson: A stop-loss order could’ve helped. Timing matters more than we think.

Hajj is only required for those who are physically and financially able. But with planning and foresight, we can position ourselves to fulfill this beautiful act of worship.

Allah is Al-Razzaq.

But we are still asked to tie our camel 🐪.

Can you guess what the individual stock investment was??

Not long ago, when I was considering my specialty and expressed a strong interest in neurology, many discouraged me. The...
17/05/2025

Not long ago, when I was considering my specialty and expressed a strong interest in neurology, many discouraged me. They said it was essentially hospice care—caring for people with little to offer in terms of cure or treatment.

But I’ve witnessed this field evolve rapidly. We now have a deeper understanding and better treatments for conditions like multiple sclerosis, migraines, seizures, dementia, stroke, and movement disorders.

Stroke can inflict devastating damage to the brain and it remains a leading cause of disability worldwide.

Fortunately, we can now not only dissolve blood clots with medication but also physically retrieve them using catheters—saving vital brain tissue and preventing paralysis, language and vision deficits. Aneurysms can be stented to prevent rupture.

These cutting-edge treatments remain unavailable in many developing countries.

In Pakistan, .stroke.initiative is working to change that—bringing life-saving, state-of-the-art stroke treatments to those in need.

Please consider supporting this cause with a small donation. Every contribution helps expand access to timely, advanced stroke care.

Time is brain.

The earlier the treatment, the better the outcome.

.stroke.initiative

Please make sure to vote for Shama Haidar and Ellen Park on June 10th!Every vote counts.It’s crucial that we show up as ...
16/05/2025

Please make sure to vote for Shama Haidar and Ellen Park on June 10th!

Every vote counts.

It’s crucial that we show up as a community and make it clear that we do vote.

When big decisions are made, turnout in every election is taken into account — not just during presidential races.
• Every election matters.
• Every vote matters.

Let’s make our voices heard!

Want change? Vote. Otherwise, don’t complain.

Writing a will is a meaningful act of responsibility and care.Tune in to my conversation with Meha Siyam, ESQ, as we dis...
18/04/2025

Writing a will is a meaningful act of responsibility and care.

Tune in to my conversation with Meha Siyam, ESQ, as we discuss Islamic will creation—why it’s important and how to do it the right way.

Listen now on Spotify, Episode #78.

Date with MyselfTaking time out to sketch out the life I want—such a powerful exercise to regularly revisit priorities a...
18/04/2025

Date with Myself
Taking time out to sketch out the life I want—such a powerful exercise to regularly revisit priorities and realign goals.

I like breaking it down into sections that reflect who I am, and what each part of me needs:

Me
Spirit: Salah, du’a, dhikr
Physical: Exercise, nourishing foods
Mental: Daily journaling, reflection

What’s beautiful is how these overlap—spiritual care brings mental peace, and physical movement eases stress and uplifts the soul.

My Kids
Their schedules, quality time, what they’re going through, and how I can support them—mentally, emotionally, and through extracurriculars.

Family
Checking in on the needs of relatives, staying connected, showing up.

Friends
Checking in on their wellbeing, being present in their lives, and sharing meaningful moments—both big and small.

Career
Creating time to read, finish notes, and approach my work with purpose and consistency.

Highly recommend this kind of check-in—helps you reset, reconnect, and realign with the life you truly want to build.

My 9-year-old, after reading the Seerah books: I wonder what type of tests I’ll have in this life.Me: Inshallah, you won...
25/02/2025

My 9-year-old, after reading the Seerah books: I wonder what type of tests I’ll have in this life.

Me: Inshallah, you won’t have any big ones and will have a happy, long, healthy life. But… your parents going through a divorce is kinda a test?

9-year-old: That was JUST a quiz.

Me: …

Sometimes, as parents, we carry the weight of our decisions, thinking they will shape our children’s entire world. But then, in a single sentence, our kids remind us—they have their own perspectives, their own resilience, and their own journey. What felt like a storm to us might just be a passing cloud to them.

Have your kids ever surprised you with their perspective on something you thought was a big deal?

By the way, the saddest part for her from the seerah was Abu Talib never converting. 🙁

Salam, I’m Saima! I’m a neurologist by profession, but my true passion lies in finance. If my desi parents hadn’t steere...
23/02/2025

Salam, I’m Saima! I’m a neurologist by profession, but my true passion lies in finance. If my desi parents hadn’t steered me toward medical school, I could have easily seen myself on Wall Street! I love reading, learning, and teaching about money, wealth-building, and financial independence.

A few things about me:

📌 I had (and maybe still have?) a podcast called Wealthy Muslim Women—you can find it on Spotify!

📌 I’m a mother to three incredible, smart souls who are my world. Parenting only gets more intense as they grow—extracurriculars, screen time battles, and playing Uber driver—but I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

📌 Life took some major detours with COVID, an ongoing genocide, and a legal separation. In the process, I went deep into healing, growth, and even became a life coach. Some wounds—like witnessing the loss of innocent lives—never heal. But this is life’s journey, and Allah (SWT) has created many tests to keep us moving forward.

Now, I’m figuring out what’s next:

✔️ My book manuscript is nearly complete—hoping to publish soon (fingers crossed!).
✔️ I have a free investing training to help simplify finance.
✔️ I’ll be sharing videos on investing and money here.
✔️ I’ll also be offering individual financial coaching.

My kids remain my first priority, but I’ll do my best to show up here in between school drop-offs and late-night deep dives into finance. Excited to share this journey with you all!

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