22/04/2024
PAG MAIKLI ANG KUMOT, MATUTONG BUMALUKTOT.
Familiar? That's one of the beliefs we have as Filipinos. Is it good? Not for me. Kasi for me, isa syang delimiting belief. Instead of you looking for more opportunities to grow, you might just decide to live in your comfort zone.
For some, this is actually a good reminder too. This is a matter of awareness. May mga tao kasing they are okay with what they already have now, hindi man malaki yung sweldo nila, they are capable of living the life they wanted. Meron namang di kaya ng sweldo nila yung lifestyle na napili nila, and that's okay. As long as they are capable of looking for opportunities to achieve the lifestyle they've always wanted. They're safe.
Always remember, hindi naman laging gusto yumaman ng isang tao. There are two choices about lifestyle:
1. Those who chooses to live within their means.
Sila yung mga friends mong okay na sa buhay nila ngayon, sapat yung sweldo sa needs and wants nila. They are the ones who can say they're comfortable sa kung ano man meron sila. Sa trabaho nila.
It's good in a way, because people learn how to be contended. Pero this is bad, if you always adjust to your means. Minsan kasi kakaadjust mo, nakukulong ka na. May mga gusto kang gawin pero di mo magawa kasi nasanay ka na bumaluktot sa maikling kumot.
Sabi ko nga kanina, medyo limiting din sya for growth, kasi baka magaling ka pala sa ibang bagay pero since nagdecide ka na na okay ka na lang sa trabaho mo ngayon kasi nabubuhay ka naman na, pero di mo naeexplore yung ibang talents na binigay sayo ni Lord.
And pag ito yung napili mo dapat malakas yung control mo sa life, always remember, everything in this world has an equivalent effort. Kung okay ka na sa effort na binibigay mo sa life, dapat okay ka din sa equivalent nitong blessings.
2. Those who live beyond their limits.
Ito yung mga taong nagaadjust sa lifestyle na napili nila. Yung una, sa income sila nag aadjust ng lifestyle nila, itong pangalawa, sila yung nagaadjust para makuha nila yung income na gusto nila for the lifestyle na napili nila. Kung nasa homebuddies ka, there's a great chance na type 2 ka.
Sila yung ambitious, and more often than not, sila din yung mas stressed at depressed. Kasi nga sila yung need maghanap ng opportunities para mapantayan yung lifestyle na gusto nilang i achieve. Madami silang goals kaya madami din silang ginagawa.
Again whatever you want to have in this world has an equivalent effort. Kung madami kang gusto, dapat madami ka din sources of income. Normally sila yung nasa sales, may business, yung lahat ng pwedeng pagkakitaan pinapasok. Because they live beyond their limits.
Walang impossible normally sa mga taong ito, if they don't quit ha. Minsan kasi sa gitna ng journey nila, nagiging number 1 na lang sila, kasi di kaya ibigay yung effort na kinakailangan ng dreams and goals nila.
So ayun, again this is matter of awareness. If alam mo sa sarili mo na di ka kumportable bumaluktot sa maikling kumot, mageffort ka! Lumabas ka at maghanap ng extra income para makabili ka ng mas malaking kumot. Live beyond your limits. Pero if you're someone na okay na sa maikling kumot? Maging flexible ka dapat, kasi kailangan mong bumaluktot pag malamig ang panahon para magkasya ka. Live within your means.
Or minsan be a mix of both, depende sa goal mo. Pwede ka naman maging pasaway at gawin pareho diba? Wala naman pipigil sayo beastie.
The first one is difficult, the second one is also difficult.
Kayo ba beastie? Type 1 ka ba or Type 2? Parang diabetes no? Share mo naman sa comments section and share your experience, because others might get some value from your you.
