03/03/2023
Money conversations with my father
I've been living independently in Metro Manila for over 8 years now. Last weekend, Papa visited and we had breakfast at Jollibee.
Sinamantala ko na din ma interview siya. Here are his thoughts about money, life and career. (non-verbatim)
✅️ 1. "Yung pagbili bili, logical naman yan. Be practical. Why will you spend more than you earn? Simple logic. Tapos ang mga bata ngayon puro delivery ng pagkain." (Sorry na po. 😆)
✅️ 2. "Dapat magplano but be sensible. Plan according to what you have now. Do not assume. Kukuha ka ng hulugan na kotse kahit di ka pa regular sa work? Sure na yung bayarin mo pero yung pagkukuhanan ng income hindi pa."
✅️ 3. "Di kami nagpadala sa lifestyle inflation.Ganito pa din kami ni mama mo. Ngayon lang mas nakaka kain na sa labas at nakaka bili na ng gusto kasi naka graduate na kayo."
✅️ 4. "Kahit di related sa course mo ang ginagawa mo ngayon, di sayang yan. Nakaka tulong yan sayo subconsciously...yung mga skills na natutunan mo. And remember, God has plans for you."
✅️ 5. "Health is wealth. Kahit ano pa yan tina trabaho mo kung magkasakit ka, wala din... kata tignan mo ako!"
(Sabay flex ng muscles lol) Which is true, I've never seen him as fit as he is now.
✅️ 6. "Lakasan lang ng loob yan. Di kami makakapag-pagawa ng bahay kung di naglakas loob na umutang. Tapos paikutin lang ang pera. Kahit bayad na ang utang, maintain lifestyle pa din kaya yung pamabayad sana napunta na sa savings."
I witnessed some people assume na either sa kanila ni mama ay nag work abroad. They find it hard to believe that both of them work in the government and were able to build a house.
Nung naglalakad na kami pabalik, I shared with him my plans about my finances and career. Sabi nya lang "May plano ka na pala eh!" 🥺
Iba talaga noh kapag sharing from experience. How I wish na record ko yung whole conversation namin kasi di ko na maalala yung iba pa nyang advice.
Invite ko nalang speaker kapag may podcast na ako?
It was a lovely day. Plus nadamay pa ako sa senior citizen discount nya :))
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