05/06/2019
💌 You've got mail darling,
Invest in SELF DISCOVERY, SELF DEFINITION & SELF ACCEPTANCE
• Know your love languages,
• Uncover any unresolved issues from your past and how they are currently ruling and ruining your relationships and opportunities,
• Be aware of your values both the healthy and unhealthy ones, obvious and phantom ones and make quickly to correct them.
• Resolve every unhealthy mindset and baised perceptions of others and self that your past hurts groomed in you,
• Study your coping mechanisms for stress, change and difference of opinion and correct those you find to be unhealthy and more.
Invest TIME IN UNDERSTANDING GOD'S LOVE SCRIPT FOR RELATIONSHIPS.
• Understand how you are loved/viewed/treasured by God,
• Study and understand the healthy and educated way to go about partner selection,
• What to look out for and who you need to become to attract good men and lasting relationships,
• Understand how you & your intended partner view gender; especially roles & identities, because its this right here that forms the major reasons for divorce & toxic situations today,
• Understand God's intention for the marriage institution, how He is a champion for equality but encourages that it must be done without entertaining extremities and fallacies.
Invest yourself in DISCOVERING YOUR SPIRITUAL IDENTITY,
no greater advice will be given to you than this.
• Figure out what solutions you were created to provide here on earth,
• Know, Know, Know the Holy Spirit for yourself and make Him your best friend. Ask Him to teach you how to know and hear the Master's voice. Because they who know and heed His voice never go wrong or live unproductive lives.
• Allow the Holy Spirit teach you about your marital status with Christ, the legalese of the New Covenant and how to execute it on earth
• Figure out what gifts/tools/talents you have been blessed with to execute your purpose & what it means to rule on this earth as both a King & Priest. It is this knowledge that will keep you from becoming either a creator, contributor, continuer or casualty of toxic/abusive situations.
Lastly, HAVE FIRM PRINCIPLES/MANTRAS that keep you from quitting on yourself💕