21/03/2024
K 1 and Ayanlowo, The Height Of Ingratitude And Self-Entitlement.
When I was growing up in our Ibadan, this happened in Onipasan, Oke-Adu. One senior civil servant was looking for accommodation, and someone took him to a house to meet the landlord, only to discover that the landlord was a messenger in his office.
He nearly passed out, realizing his to-be landlord worked under him as a messenger when he did not even own a plot of land.
Meanwhile, the senior civil servant was riding a big car, with a well-furnished apartment and a harem of ladies enjoying nightly catfish pepper soup, while the parsimonious messenger was saving to build a house. It is a matter of prioritizing your interests.
Ayanlowo should tell us what he did with the money he made under Wasiu Ayinde because even as a packer with a band like K1, you have some nuggets. Remember, Wasiu himself started as a packer with Ayinde Barrister and happily enough, at least two other band boys junior to Ayanlowo have come out to say they are doing well.
You cannot help but believe them with their rotund chicks compared to Ayanlowo’s, who looks emaciated—a deliberate ploy they used to make him look wretched and portray K1 as a bad guy.
But we are wiser, we see other band members, and we see him as he was when he sprayed his boss when singing his praise. If he is looking so haggard now, it’s because he has left his source of blessing. If you shred the umbrella that covers you, do not complain when the rain is beating on you.
Please do not perceive me wrongly. I am not a fan of K1, even though he produces melodious music. His songs are not rich in Yoruba language enough for my liking. I would rather stick with Orlando Owoh, Ayinla Omowura, Yussuf Olatunji, Haruna Ishola, King Sunny Ade, Ebnezer Obey and a few others.
It’s not only his music I don’t fancy; some of the things we hear about him are not good music to the ears. What about allegedly being unnecessarily stingy, arrogant, taking his friends wives as concubines, and sleeping with the daughter of contemporaries?
Yes, K1 is not on the highest moral podium, but we are not going to hang him with Ayanlowo’s vituperations. This is a well-organized scheme to bring down K1 and that explains why this vedanta is all over Nigeria's cyberspace. Any couple of clicks on Facebook, turn up Ayanlowo interview or of another person supporting him.
One of the golden rules my father gave me was never to talk badly about my boss with people, and if I had any issues with him, I could talk straight to his face, but not in the presence of any witnesses. This has worked well for me, but those who broke this rule have lived to regret it.
Those who badmouthed and betrayed their bosses like Ayanlowo, where are they today? Judas in the Bible, Ajelowo with Ayinla, Tamiyu Ayan of Sunny Ade—where are they now? They all became irrelevant with their drums. Awon to pera won ni nkan kabiti, awon da?
What kind of integrity does a man have, who spent a whopping 32 years with a boss and is still talking about him like that on the internet, divulging all the secrets and privilege information of a band that fed him for 32 years?
This Ayan of a man pi**ed me off where he said he met K1 and somebody at the gate without greeting him because ‘o le fimi pa’ What a gratuitous insult. If I were K1, I would not allow him to enter my house from that moment on.
He collected N8,000 for a show where he would spend 10,000 N on a hotel, 6,000N on food, and some other expenses, including transportation. What a shrewd businessman? He spent N19,000 to make 8,000, a loss of N11,000 and he did that for 32 years and still built a four-flat apartment. Ayan, spare us; we all know where the baby comes out of a woman.
The problem we have with this brouhaha is that of self-entitlement, which is very rampant among us in Africa and Nigeria in particular. You went to your uncle for assistance and could only part with 10k, you start to complain as if you made his money for him. Your sister in the UK sends you 20,000, and you start to grumble that it is too small.
Ayanlowo believes that K1 should share the bundles of money with the band boys, and this is where he is wrong. There will be no drummer Ayanlowo without musician K1 but there will be K1 without ten Ayanlowos, a truth he must have found out these past two years he left the band.
It has happened several times before, and the band boys ended up with the wrong side of the stick. And there is no reason to suspect this will be different.
Some commentators referred to how this kind of scenario played out with great musicians like Sunny Ade, Orlando Owoh, Ayinla, Haruna Ishola and others, and I bet it was all due to this self-entitlement virus.
This guy has not complained that the agreed compensations have not been met. If Wasiu has met these, anything outside is extra at his whims and caprices. If he gives, good, if he does not, so be it. If you are not satisfied, move on.
He seized your passports, and somehow you still managed to work overseas to build a big house. How long did you stay oversees? Were you on leave or took a leave of absence, and for how long? Who held your place for you, and you still came back to take your place? If you were given any of these, it is still some kind of benevolence to be grateful for.
And what if he held on to your passport? Is it not here that a whole band disappeared in the USA? Now, you want him to allow you to japa and kill his business, and get the doors of Europe and America shot in his face? Common, the survival of that band is the responsibility of K1 and k1 alone, and if he has kept the band together this long in spite of wolves like Ayanlowos in this world, he deserves some flowers.
The ingrate was talking about the fe**sh things that happened in Wasiu’s house. Can he swear with his drum that the small space he held in that band was without the help of Alfas and Babalawo. They all do it, and none of them can swear he got to the top with only the Bible and the Quran.
And this is a lesson for my readers. I always tell those who are close to me, when you are in a relationship, remember the day of fracas. Ti o ba tin se ore, fi aye ojo ija le. If K1 had done his spiritual consultation in another way without involving his band boys, this guy would not have been using it against him now.
Come to think of it, this interview was done in 2022, What kind of editing were they doing for two years, which makes me believe that the guy had been going around to beg K1.
They must have tried to use the interview to blackmail him, but to no avail. He called their bluff, which made them go to town with the interview in the most ferocious way to inflict maximum damage on k1 career. Wasiu needs not worry; Providence has a way to vindicate people like you, which does not mean you cannot be nicer to your band boys.
A Toyota Corolla for each of them, which will not make a scratch on your wealth, with your band insignia on each of them will go a long way toward promoting you and the band.
Man is the most important M of the 5Ms of management, as they manage the other 4Ms. Make your workers happy; they will make you happy in return, but there is no room for treacherous and perfidious characters.
As for Ayanlowo, the drummer boy, he can take his drums to Baba Onilu at Iwo Road in Ibadan and beat his drums without guitar, saxophone, organ, or konga drums, combined with K1 voice and see how many four-flats he builds in the next 32 years if he is still here.
Otunba Jide Omiyale (SME Expert And Amateur Political Analyst)