24/10/2020
前几天收到一个紧急电话,我被告知一位友人,也是我客户发生意外车祸进了医院;非常严重至昏迷不醒。
今天到中央医院,见了友人他躺在ICU病床上,医生说病人脑部严重受损,生命危在旦夕;我想办法询问不少脑科专科医生;哪怕只有一线希望,都要去尝试,站在他身旁的太太双眼红肿,问我能怎么办;我只能安慰家属,为他们祷告;第二天,获医生告知,友人病情恶化,过世了...
我脑海浮现友人生前的点滴,他是一名很努力打拼的年轻商人,热爱学习,和爱护家庭;现在友人不在了,我突然领悟到生命是如此地短暂,人生到最后,不管你多么的富有,最后所有的财富你也带不走,我体会到我们在世上应活出生命的意义,最后留下来的只有我们身前与家人,朋友之间的良好关系,和增值意义。在友人生前;我也为他规划了人生财富四季,从家庭财富保障,财富增值,到传承, 他留下的不是债务,也不会拖累家人,他已做尽了成为父亲,丈夫的责任,做足了保障家人未来的生活的责任 !
如果今天是你的最后一天, 你想留下什么? 钱你带不走,你可以留下什么?你留下的是给别人的回忆,你留下的是给别人的尊重,能够留下的只有人与人之间的关系, 能够留下的是我们对家人所付出的爱, 对他们的责任和保障。不管是处于什么样的财务状况,为了保护我们爱的人,我们都该记住【责任】到底有多重要。
A few days ago, I received an emergency call. I was told that one of my friend, who was also my client, was unconscious in the hospital from a serious car accident.
When I went to the Central Hospital today, I saw him lying on the ICU bed. The doctor said that his brain was seriously damaged and his life was at stake. I tried to seek for other brain specialists, even if there was only a glimmer of hope, I had to try and I wouldn’t give up. His wife was keep asking me what to do, I could see the desperation and helplessness in her red and swollen eyes. What I could only do is try my best to comfort the family and pray sincerely for them. Unfortunately on the next day, we were told that my friend’s condition was rapidly worsened and passed away.
My friend was a family man who was very caring for his family, he was motivated and worked very hard. At the moment he left the world, I realized that how short is our life. No matter how much of money we’ve earned, we can’t bring it along with us when we’re gone. I realized that we should live out the meaning of life and find out the purpose of our life. In the end, only the good relationships between us and our family, friends and the value-added by the meaning will be left behind the world. Before my friend passed away; I helped him with financial planning for his whole family of life and wealth, from family wealth protection, wealth appreciation, to inheritance. He has left no debts, nor drag his family back, he has done his responsibilities as a father and a husband , he did all he could to protect the family's future life!
How do we live a purposeful life so that when we died, we can say: ‘This was a worthwhile life.’? Imagine that today is the last day you live, what do you want to leave in the world? If you can't take the money, what can you keep? What you will leave behind are memories with others, respect for others, the relationships between people, the love that we gave to our family, and the protection and responsibilities for them. To protect the one we love, we must remember how important is ‘RESPONSIBILITY’ no matter what kind of financial situation we are in.
~MATT.W