18/10/2018
Just don't mention the 'D' word!
I’ve been thinking of writing this article for a while now, but often stop because I don’t want to offend anyone.
Yet I believe it should be spoken about because it affects how those in my industry advise you.
It’s all based on one common objection as to why most people don’t have adequate protection in place. Can you guess what it is?
Yep, it’s ‘it will never happen to me’.
This one objection effects how most advisers in my line of work approach clients, and not in a good way.
I believe it’s because most don’t want to speak about the elephant in the room and risk offending anyone by addressing the ‘it will never happen to me’.
Now I’m going to say it and I’ll be honest here and say I’m nervous about writing it. But we’re all grown ups here and I’m just going to come out with it...you’re going to get sick and die.
It feels almost offensive to even say that and yet it’s not a grandiose statement, it’s not even being negative, it’s just a fact.
No person who has ever lived or who will live, will escape this fate. Of the 7 billion people living on the planet, all will get sick and pass away including me and you. No-one knows when it will happen to them, only that it will.
The problem I believe is our unhealthy attitude to death, we just don’t want to talk about it (particularly in western cultures. Most eastern cultures have a far healthy attitude to death).
But because of our ignorance on the subject, it’s almost created a delusionary attitude where most people just can’t see themselves ever getting ill and dying. Think about it and be honest here, do you believe it will happen to you?
We now have mortgage and protection advisers too scared to confront the subject properly. Perhaps they don’t want to upset anyone, be in any form of confrontational situation or perhaps they also don’t see it happening to them either.
Think I’m making this up? Consider this, 50% of people with a mortgage in the UK have no Life Cover in place at all - that’s 5.5 million people with a mortgage and no coverage. For Illness cover it’s even worse with only 11% of the country having some form of income protection (and that includes provisions through employers).
I think it highly unlikely that half the population with a mortgage decided not to protect it. It's likely that in some of those cases, the adviser who set it up their mortgage just didn't even have the conversation or glossed over it too flippantly.
Of course there will also be those people who have been offered protection insurance and turned it down because they just don't see it ever happening to them.
I’ll admit that when I first started at the age of 25, I never really expected to see any claims. But 14 years on, I’ve had 6 claims that I know of in the last 5 months. And in most cases, those that have claimed always wished they had more.
So think about it properly and ask yourself honestly, if something happened to you in this very moment now, have you got enough provisions in place to make sure financially all are okay? Is there enough to cover the mortgage, your bills, your kids activities, the lifestyle that you provide or someone else provides for?
I’ll go first and say that I believe I have. I have enough life cover to pay off the mortgage and leave extra for my wife to live comfortably until my youngest leaves school. I have enough critical illness should I get Cancer or something equally serious to clear my mortgage and provide myself with a monthly income for as long as needed.
I don’t say this to brag but to illustrate that I truly get it - and I really should seeing the role I am in. With all the claims I’ve seen and been a part of, you really shouldn’t expect anything less from me.
Also it doesn't mean that what I have in place is also what you should have as no two situations are exactly the same.
There will always be those who are willing to take the risk and have no coverage - and I understand this.
But I do think it’s our duty of care to educate our clients on the realities of the pitfalls. You still might take the risk, and that’s perfectly fine because you’ve been told how it is and decided it’s not for you.
And not because your mortgage or protection adviser was too ignorant or scared to even mention it, leaving you vulnerable without even knowing that you are.
I would be interested in your feedback on this, your experiences, your expectations and own beliefs around this. Also what’s stopped you, is it because you don’t think it will happen to you, because no-one has ever offered it to you, or another reason altogether?