08/06/2026
Happy Pride Month.
In case you didn't already know, my eldest daughter is trans. 🏳️🌈
Ari is 17 now and came out about three years ago.
A friend asked me recently how long it took me to process and was surprised that it only took me a few days to become pronoun compliant. There was an element of grief to be honest, the person I thought I knew didn't exist. However, I quickly realised that she's the same person she's always been - sweet, slightly awkward with an amazing sense of style. The hard bit was that natural teen withdrawal, when they start growing up and away from you.
Anyway, to get back to work. There are encouraging signs of acceptance in my industry - we recently had a new CRM which offers clients the option to use Mx for their title. Micro changes like this can mean the world to those of us that don't fall into standard boxes.
With regard to insuring yourself if you're trans you need to be prepared for underwriting.
Planned surgery can mean that your cover is postponed until it's completed.
Mental health history (obviously understandable) can affect terms that are offered
Hormone replacement therapy may be a consideration.
Then there are the normal factors - medical history, hobbies, employment.
People are still insurable and deserve the same advice and respect regardless of gender identity.
Photo of rainbow at the end of my road on Friday.
If any of this resonates, or you have questions about how this may affect you or your family, feel free to reach out.